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  • 6 Top Family Dinners – Made Healthier Without Complicated Recipes

    6 Top Family Dinners – Made Healthier Without Complicated Recipes

    Many parents want to cook healthy for themselves and their children, but that can be challenging. Kids can be picky eaters, and parents may worry that it’ll take time or gourmet cooking skills to get a healthy meal on the table. For ideas, check out whole grain dinners, breakfast for dinner, and kid-friendly dinners. And keep reading right here!

    But in reality, it can be simple to prepare healthy meals that kids accept. Just start with your typical rotation of kid-friendly foods, whether it’s chicken nuggets, mac and cheese, or baked spaghetti. Then swap and add to increase the nutrient content while keeping the fun and flavor in the dish. 

    The result can be a set of simple meals that please and fuel the whole family. These small changes help support steady energy, fullness, and overall nutrition, without taking much effort on your part or turning mealtimes into battles. 

    Below are seven familiar dinners with simple upgrades that keep meals easy and family-friendly.

    1. Easy Baked Chicken Nuggets With Yellow Corn and Green Broccoli

    Chicken nuggets are a weeknight staple in many homes, since kids love them and they take only minutes to prepare from frozen. With a few simple changes, you can turn chicken nuggets into a meal you feel proud to serve. 

    Use whole-grain breading, bake the nuggets instead of frying them, and serve them with yellow corn – a familiar and favorite side for kids – and their choice of vegetable, such as broccoli florets or green beans. Fresh or frozen chicken tenderloins are skinless, easy to handle, and lean.

    Chicken nuggets – the ultimate finger food made healthy!

    Approximate nutrition per serving: 420 calories, 28g protein, 5g fiber

    What’s in it:

    3–4 baked chicken nuggets (from chicken tenderloins)

    ½ cup of corn

    Steamed broccoli florets, fresh grape tomatoes, or any other non-starchy vegetable

    Optional: ketchup, marinara, or BBQ sauce for dipping

    How to make it:

    1. Preheat oven to 400°F. Grease a cooking sheet with cooking spray.

    2. Cut the chicken tenderloins into nugget-size pieces, or leave them as is for “chicken fingers.”

    3. Dip chicken in beaten egg or egg white.

    4. Coat in rolled or instant oats or whole-wheat breadcrumbs with a pinch of salt and garlic powder.

    5. Place on the baking sheet and bake for 12–15 minutes until cooked through.

    6. Serve nuggets with corn and vegetables on the side.

    Family tip:

    Serve the nuggets and sides separately on the plate. Kids love eating nuggets with their fingers, and they usually like foods separate. Try serving a dip in a small bowl to make it easier. Kids may enjoy helping you dip the chicken in egg white and breadcrumbs – just make sure you wash their hands well!

    2. Brown Rice Fried Rice With Egg

    Many kids love grain, and fried rice is an easy dish for parents to prepare. It uses leftover rice, fresh, frozen, or leftover vegetables, eggs, and fresh or leftover chicken or other protein. With brown rice, lean proteins, and extra vegetables, this dish can be more nutritious than what you might order in a restaurant. 

    No need to order in – make your own feel-good fried rice! Optional: pineapple chunks for natural sweetness.

    Approximate nutrition per serving: 400 calories, 18g protein, 5 g fiber

    What’s in it (per serving):

    • ¾ cup cooked brown rice
    • 1 egg
    • (Optional) 2-3 ounces of cooked protein like salmon, chicken, or tofu in small pieces.
    • ½ cup frozen mixed vegetables
    • Soy sauce or teriyaki sauce

    How to make it:

    1. Heat 1-2 teaspoons of sesame, canola, olive, or other vegetable oil in a skillet, or use cooking spray.

    2. Add vegetables and cook until warmed through.

    3. Push veggies to the side and scramble the egg.

    4. Stir in cooked rice and additional protein if using, and add soy sauce or teriyaki sauce.

    Family tip:

    If mixed vegetables feel overwhelming, start with just peas, carrots, or corn, and add others gradually. Parents can serve their own rice with additional vegetables. 

    3. Whole-Wheat Spaghetti With Meat Sauce

    Spaghetti with meat sauce is a basic food for many families! With just a few swaps, it can also be one of the most balanced, simple meals possible. Whole-grain pasta can be a good introduction to whole grains because it tastes similar to white pasta. Use turkey instead of beef in the meat sauce, and add any vegetables you can to the sauce – sliced mushrooms, chopped carrots, or pureed pumpkin are favorites. 

    Spaghetti and meat sauce is a perennial favorite – add nutrients and enjoy!

    Approximate nutrition per serving: 450 calories, 24g protein, 8g fiber

    What’s in it (per serving):

    • 1 cup cooked whole-wheat spaghetti (2 ounces dry)
    • Lean ground turkey, vegetable/soy protein, or lentils
    • Canned or jarred pasta sauce (marinara, mushroom, or similar)
    • Parmesan cheese

    How to make it:

    1. Cook pasta according to package directions.

    2. Brown ground turkey or prepare the vegetable protein or lentils.

    3. Stir in the marinara sauce and simmer for 5 minutes to heat thoroughly.

    4. Serve sauce over pasta and top with parmesan.

    Family tip:

    Let kids add their own parmesan cheese. It’s fun! Parents who are looking for a lower-carbohydrate meal can keep pasta to ½ cup or use spiralized zucchini or spaghetti squash instead of pasta. 

    4. Healthier Baked Penne

    Baked penne is a comfort food, but it can be a healthy choice! Use whole-grain pasta in whatever shape your kids want – penne, spaghetti, or elbows. Low-fat cottage cheese and low-fat mozzarella cheese add flavor, protein, and calcium. For more vegetables, be generous with the marinara sauce, and consider adding fresh chopped or canned diced tomatoes or any other vegetables. Add cooked chicken breast or lean ground turkey if desired. 

    Approximate nutrition per serving (without extra chicken or turkey): 350 calories, 15g protein, 7g fiber

    What’s in it (for 4 servings):

    8 ounces (4 cups cooked) whole-wheat pasta

    2-3 cups of marinara sauce

    2 cups of low-fat cottage cheese or ricotta

    ½-1 cup (2-4 ounces) of low-fat shredded mozzarella cheese

    How to make it:

    1. Cook spaghetti and drain.

    3. Combine pasta, sauce, and cottage cheese in a baking dish.

    4. Top with mozzarella and bake at 375°F for ~20 minutes.

    Family tip:

    Stir in finely chopped spinach or mushrooms. They disappear into the sauce.

    5. Easy Whole-Grain Mac and Cheese With Veggies

    What kid doesn’t love mac and cheese? Don’t worry about making it from scratch. With this simple recipe, you don’t need to make a roux or flour-based sauce. Just melt low-fat cheese into milk and add it to the pasta for a melty, creamy dish. Stir in disappearing vegetables like pureed squash, or add favorite vegetables like sliced zucchini, cauliflower florets, or cooked diced carrots. 

    Mac and cheese can be as healthy as you want it to be!

    Approximate nutrition per serving: 360 calories, 17 protein, 6g fiber

    What’s in it (per 4 servings)

    4 cups cooked whole-grain elbow pasta (8 ounces dry)

    1 ½ cups (6 ounces) shredded low-fat cheddar, mozzarella, or Mexican blend cheese

    ¾ cup skim milk or milk substitute, or use the cooking water from the elbows

    2-4 cups of vegetables

    How to make it:

    1. Cook whole-grain elbow pasta according to package directions.

    2. Drain and return pasta to the warm pot.

    3. Stir in milk and shredded cheese until melted and creamy.

    4. Mix in cooked vegetables

    5. Add salt and pepper to taste

    Family tip:

    Let your kids help if they want. It’s fun to melt cheese and stir it into pasta.

    6. Lighter Tuna Noodle Casserole

    This classic comfort meal becomes a balanced meal in a pan with whole-grain noodles, protein-packed tuna, and extra vegetables.

    Approximate nutrition per serving: 350 calories, 25g protein, 6g fiber

    What’s in it (4 servings):

    4 cups cooked whole-grain noodles (8 ounces dry)

    2 5-ounce cans of tuna, drained

    2 cups of frozen peas

    1-2 cups of sauteed onions, mushrooms, and/or celery

    1 can of low-fat cream of mushroom soup

    How to make it:

    1. Cook noodles according to package directions.

    2. Mix noodles, tuna, vegetables, and sauce in a baking dish.

    3. Top with breadcrumbs if desired.

    4. Bake at 375°F for ~20 minutes.

    Family tip:

    If casseroles feel too mixed for some kids, serve the components separately the first few times. If you can’t get your kids to love tuna, make the casserole with chicken or lean ground turkey.

    Small Changes Add Up

    Healthy family meals can be simple, affordable, and enjoyable. It can be as easy as taking your favorite meals and making nutritious swaps and additions. The result can be meals that are kid-friendly and a source of vegetables, protein, and other nutrients. 

    If you’re looking for more support creating healthy and realistic meals for your household – or support for your own health and weight management – please sign up for nutritional counseling. We can work towards your goals, your way!

  • The Habit That Builds Healthy Families Now and Forever – It’s Not Diet or Exercise

    The Habit That Builds Healthy Families Now and Forever – It’s Not Diet or Exercise

    We’ve been talking about ways to add in healthy behaviors during routine days of late winter. In case you missed them, check our tips for establishing healthy eating patterns and exercise routines for the family, as well as supporting sleep, energy, and mental health for kids and parents in a positive environment. 

    There’s another area to focus on when thinking about laying the groundwork for a strong and healthy family now and forever. It’s connection. Being in a family is a privilege. By recognizing and celebrating joy in routine interactions, you can create an environment where kids and adults can feel safe, support each other, and find more happiness in everyday moments. Here’s how to strengthen family connections, build trust, and fortify your family now and in years to come.

    Greetings and Farewells Set the Tone

    How you greet someone makes all the difference. A friendly greeting says that you are happy to be in the presence of that person. It signals that they’re your priority. You’re there for them. Additionally, your day just got better because you’re with them. 

    If you’re not sure how to show that you’re thrilled to start the day or be reunited with your kids, consider these simple signs. 

    • Use their name when you say hi.
    • Make eye contact.
    • Smile.
    • Give a big wave, high-five, or hug.

    Simple? Yes. Life-changing? Potentially. 

    A proper greeting is appropriate when you say good morning and pick them up from school and afterschool activities. But it’s also appropriate when they come into the room you’re in. What a wonderful home environment it is when your kids know they’re wanted!

    Ordinary Moments Build Relationships

    Special activities undeniably build lasting memories, but ordinary moments build relationships. Whether you’re actively working together or you’re just in each other’s presence, you can communicate your joy at being together.

    Simple time together is valuable for everyone.
    • Invite your kids to help with a task you’re working on.
    • Start reading out loud or playing a game they like so they can join in.
    • Set them up with an independent task or game so you can work alongside them.

    You can be together, separately, but living life together. You’re giving them the confidence that they can do it, and you’ll be by their side.

    Connect Before Correcting: The 10:1 Rule

    Criticism is hard to take, but it has a significant impact. In fact, people need to hear about 7-10 positive comments to balance out the effects of a single negative comment. That goes for kids, too.

    Kids need to feel secure, loved, and accepted before they’ll respond to suggestions or criticism. That makes it especially important to shower them with positivity throughout the day. If they misbehave, lead with a positive comment. 

    • “Thank you for trying.”
    • “I know that was a tough situation.”
    • “I saw that you felt overwhelmed, and I know you were trying to handle it.”

    Make sure your child feels secure before you try to correct any type of behavior. There’s no point in correcting them if they’re not receptive. They’re incapable of receiving your correction if they’re not perfectly relaxed and confident.

    Take a deep breath, and lead with a positive comment. If nothing comes to mind, a hug works fine. There’s no need to rush the criticism. 

    Longer term, this sets the tone for adolescents to be able to trust you with their more serious concerns. Kids who know their parents accept them and will help them turn into adolescents with that same confidence.

    Protect a Ritual

    Life is unpredictable, busy, and challenging – but you can establish a single ritual that’s dependable and comforting. It could be conversing at dinner, reading together (out loud or side by side) at night, or doing the weekly grocery shopping together. 

    Regular trips to the zoo can be a family tradition that allows for good conversations and lasting memories.

    These rituals become anchor memories. Your children will remember them fondly, and feel a closer connection with you. These rituals can be simple and short. The only requirement is that they occur. 

    Getting Started with Joy in Everyday Interactions

    Assess your current actions and reactions so you know where you can strengthen family connections. Ask yourself:

    • “How do I react when my child walks into the room? What message does that send to my child?”
    • “When was the last time I participated with my child in something that was important to them, even if not to me?”
    • “What can I ask my child to teach me so they feel proud, capable, and valuable to me?”
    Keep games fun and not too serious. The important thing is to spend time together.

    Unlike many health-supporting behaviors – say, eating broccoli or going to boot camp before dawn, family connection is about joy. The goal is to appreciate and enjoy time with your family. It’s that simple, and it’s surprisingly effective at supporting physical and mental health, better behavior, and long-term success through a strong support system. 

    How do you support family connection? What’s something you can do today to foster closeness among your family?

  • A Birthday Celebration with an Old Friend Makes Me Grateful

    A Birthday Celebration with an Old Friend Makes Me Grateful

    We’ve been talking about routine days of mid-winter, and how to add healthy habits in diet and exercise, as well as family life, to those days. Here are some reflections about a weekend excursion that may not have included many nutrients or much exercise, but did focus on a wonderfully healthy social connection with a centenarian.

    A visit was long overdue, and a birthday celebration was the perfect reason to take her out. I can’t tell you which birthday she was celebrating; it might give her identity away. Yes, she’s that old, and she’s someone my son and I both value in our lives. She’s incredibly special, wise, funny, and giving. On a cloudy, mid-winter day, we went out for ice cream. Though the goal was to give her a treat, I am sure that got more out of the outing than I gave her.

    I Met Her and the “Gym Ladies” When She Was 87

    No joke. She was one of the “Gym Ladies.” When I met her, she had been working out with the other gym ladies for nearly 25 years. They are a fabulous bunch of women – interesting, kind, supportive, and wise. They would get on cardio machines next to each other and gab for 30, 60, or more minutes while working out. 

    They welcomed me with open arms. For years, we’d work out and talk together. We became good friends. They were the ones who threw me a baby shower when I was pregnant with my son. I stayed at the gym until it closed for COVID-19, and some of those women remain my closest friends.

    A Special Friendship with a Now-Centenarian

    This particular friend and I really hit it off. We have a lot in common, from political views to upbringing to sense of humor. We laughed our ways through years of workouts, but there was more. She’s insightful and understanding, too. Every time I came to her with a problem, she was able to see the bigger picture and offer some words of advice based on experience.

    I was always impressed by her life skills. She knew how to talk the cable company out of overcharging her, and how to get suspicious charges eliminated from her phone and wifi bills. She knew how to talk to people on the street or on the phone to avoid scams and get what she wanted. She was absolutely not a candidate for being a victim of scams against the elderly! 

    She’s a baby lover. She used to light up whenever she saw a baby or small child. If a parent had to bring a baby into the gym, she’d instantly get off her exercise machine to go to the baby. She couldn’t help it! 

    In fact, she popped into the hospital on the day my son was born. He was 6 hours old, I had gone through 31 hours of labor and a C-section, and she had the idea of dropping in on me that day! She brought another of the gym ladies, and those two have the honor, of course, of being my son’s oldest friends. 

    Centenarians are increasingly common in the U.S. The Census Bureau says that the number of centenarians, or people over 100 years old, increased from 53,364 in 2010 to 80,139 in 2020. That’s a 50% jump, and equivalent to about 2 in 10,000 people. My friend is among the 50% of female centenarians who live on their own. 

    Bringing Out the Best Side of My Son

    My son loves her as much as she loves him. She’s always made her home open to him and let him play with what he likes. He can feel her love, and he respects her. 

    On the Saturday two days before my friend’s birthday, my son and I came to pick her up at her house. He even washed his hands properly beforehand, knowing that he needs to be careful of her health. 

    She can walk just fine. Usually she uses a walker, but she asked my son to help her get to the car instead of using a walker. He rose to the occasion, being the perfect gentleman. Then he closed the door for her, folded the walker, and put it in the trunk. 

    A Casual Celebration to Be Thankful for

    We drove to the store where the ice cream shop was. Since she hadn’t been out for a while, I’d suggested we go to a supermarket where they sold ice cream scoops and had outdoor seating. We wandered around the store and then ordered ice cream – cookies and cream for all. Then we sat outside with the ice cream and chatted.

    Sometimes, health isn’t about the sugar and fat content. It’s about experiences and connections.

    The Secret to Longevity

    What’s the secret to longevity? Every centenarian has their own ideas. Drink wine. Don’t drink wine. Be active. Don’t be active. Eat a raw egg yolk every day. Take your vitamins. Stay away from supplements. Avoid red meat. Eat meat and potatoes. 

    The only things that are certain is that the proper genetics must be there, and no devastating accidents can occur.  

    In other words, there is not one formula for longevity, and especially for healthy aging. Here’s what I observe in my friend, though I can’t prove cause and effect. They may just be coincidences. 

    • Activity – She was a tomboy as a child, a mother of three, and a gym-goer until age 94.
    • Stubbornness – Don’t bother trying to persuade her otherwise if she has an idea about something.
    • Determination – If she was going to do it, she was going to do it. She told me that when she was a little girl, she didn’t tell her mother that she’d broken her ankle because she was afraid she’d get in trouble. She just walked herself to school like she did every morning. 
    • Resilience – She doesn’t let things drag her down. She looks forward. Maybe that came from her , but I suspect a lot of it is within her personality. 
    • Connection – She’s the one who taught me about Family Dinner on Wednesdays (I adopted that idea and my son and my parents and I have Family Lunch on Sundays). Plus, she maintains her friendships with the other Gym Ladies.

    If my son and I can learn anything from her, it may be to stay active, stay interested, and stay connected. The rest, we do the best we can. And, as she says, “Take it one day at a time.”

    Thank you, and Happy Birthday!

  • The Power of Routine: Healthy Family Habits That You Can Start This February

    The Power of Routine: Healthy Family Habits That You Can Start This February

    January may be for big goals and major declarations, but February is for sticking to a routine. And that can be the best possible thing for the health of you and your children. When your schedule is predictable – work is steady, regular school days and nightly homework are the norm, and no major holidays are on the horizon, you have a great opportunity to add healthy behaviors to that routine.

    We already talked about simple ways to improve eating habits and work physical activity into your family’s regular schedule. In this post, we’ll talk about other ways to support physical and mental health, as well as family closeness. With small changes and some awareness, you can improve sleep habits and energy, spend more time together while preserving your own time to relax, build strength and closeness as a family unit, and become more resilient to stress. 

    Sleep: Build and Protect a Strong Foundation

    Sleep is crucial for energy, ability to learn and focus, a good mood, metabolic health, and normalizing hunger. February, when most mornings and evenings have predictable patterns and times, provides the ideal setting for improving sleep habits. If a nightly goal of 9-11 hours for kids and 7-9 hours for parents seems out of reach, focus on what may be even more important for sleep: consistent bed times and wake times.

    These tips can help optimize the value of sleep in your family.

    • Choose realistic lights-out times for kids and for adults. They should ideally be consistent on weekdays and weekends. If they have to vary, make them as close to each other as possible.
    • Let your family use weekends and other days without a required wake time as time to catch up on sleep. 
    • Have a bedtime routine for kids and for parents. Kids and parents might brush teeth and read together before you say good-night to your kids. Later, you might change into nightclothes, stretch, make a to-do list, spend time with your significant other, or do other relaxing activities. The trick is to make them consistent and non-stressful.
    • Turn off devices 30-60 minutes before bedtime. This helps prevent kids from depending on devices to put them to sleep. It helps adults’ brains shut down more easily so it’s easier to fall asleep.
    Kids and adults rely on good sleep to stay happy and healthy

    As always, make sure bedrooms are dark, quiet, and cool, and beds, blankets, and pillows are comfortable. 

    Fostering a Positive Family Culture

    Many workplaces foster a positive culture; consider working for a positive family culture at home. First, identify your goals. They may include these. 

    • Being supportive of each other on good days and bad
    • Making the best of situations as they come up
    • Problem solving rather than giving in
    • Accepting imperfections and embracing alternative solutions

    To support a positive family culture, come up with guidelines as a family. Write or draw them somewhere where everyone can see them. Examples include showing respect, treating others like you value them, and stepping in to help when you see a way that you can. 

    As always, modeling is one of the best ways to get your kids to act the way you want. Praise your children every chance you get. When you make a mistake, admit it and then make amends. Ask if you can help. If something goes wrong, acknowledge it, then decide how you can make it turn out as well as possible. 

    You can also show your love in every way you can, such as leaving notes in lunchboxes or mirrors so your kids know you’re thinking of them, or hugging them when you drop them off and pick them up. Show respect by giving them choices (“Do you want a peanut butter sandwich or English muffin pizza for lunch?”). Let them know you trust them by asking what they learned from their homework rather than if they finished it. If they make a mistake, reassure them that it’ll work out okay, and you’ll help them if they need it. 

    Praise each other and show each other you care to foster a positive family environment

    Remember that for every positive thing you say, kids remember 5-10 negative ones. So, be sure positive parts dramatically outweigh negative ones!

    Stress Reduction and Resilience for Kids, Parents, and Families

    Routine can reduce stress in many ways. Things are predictable, so it’s easier to prepare for them. There’s less effort and angst needed to plan each day. 

    On the other hand, stress can come from other sources in mid-winter. Routines can seem endless and boring. There’s no change day after day, week after week. For kids especially, school can be stressful. Lessons may be tougher, there are fewer days with parties or without homework, and pressure can feel heavier. 

    When you manage stress, it has fewer negative effects. When you build resilience, you’re better able to bounce back from challenging situations. You can take the lead in managing stress and building resilience in your family. 

    Manage stress for yourself in standard ways: being physically active, eating well, sleeping well, deep breathing, and journaling. Try to let go of what you can’t control, and have a friend or family member who lets you phone them if you need support. Take time to yourself each day, even if it’s as little as a one-minute pep talk to yourself before stepping in the door after work. 

    Small silly actions like jumping in puddles can bring joy and reduce negative effects of stress – not to mention teach kids that it’s okay to get dirty!

    Help your kids manage stress by building in down time each day. Support the same healthy habits in them that you maintain for yourself. And, help them name emotions and identify causes and solutions. This helps things be less overwhelming to them.

    Together, practice deep breathing and counting. Talk through emotions, problems, and solutions. This builds the structure for them knowing you’re there for them no matter what, and you’ll get through it together. 

    There’s a lot to a healthy lifestyle, but adding in healthy habits one at a time can be manageable. Mid-winter is an especially good time to focus on health, when other parts of your life may be more predictable and easier to handle. 

    How do you use routine weeks to make your family’s lifestyle healthier?