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  • Healthy Hot Dogs and Hamburgers for Kids and Parents: Quick & Family-Friendly Ideas

    Hot dogs and hamburgers are easy, quick, and kid favorites, but they can be among the least healthy choices for a family meal. Still, with a few swaps, you can make them healthier. Healthy hot dogs and burgers with high-fiber sides can be easy to make and kid-friendly. Here are tips for cutting back on saturated fat and refined carbs and adding protein and fiber, while keeping kids’ tastes buds in mind. 

    Choose a Healthier Hot Dog

    A standard beef or pork hot dog is high in saturated fat and cancer-causing nitrates. It’s not even that high in protein, with 5 grams of protein, or 10% of the daily value, in a classic wiener. Protein helps your kids grow and it helps you stay full for longer, which makes weight management easier. 

    Turkey franks are slightly better. They’re lower in saturated fat and don’t have red meat, which is linked to heart disease risk. But they’re still not great. They have cancer-causing nitrates just like beef dogs do, and they only have 5-6 grams of protein.

    For a much healthier choice, try veggie dogs. They’re free from nitrates and cholesterol, and they’re low in saturated fat. They’re also higher in protein. A jumbo veggie dog, for example, has about the same amount of calories as a beef or turkey dog, with 100 calories, but it has no nitrates, no cholesterol, and 14 grams of protein. 

    Better Burger Alternatives

    Don’t do it! A burger and fries can have over 1,000 calories, but with just a bit more effort, you can serve a nutritious, high-protein meal!

    Burgers can be higher in protein than hot dogs, but for the sake of your health and your children’s health, consider alternatives to regular beef burgers. A 4-ounce beef patty made with 85% lean ground beef has 240 calories and 6 grams of saturated fat. That’s about a quarter of the daily limit for saturated fat. Plus, red meat – even lean red meat – can increase risk for heart disease due to the way your body metabolizes it. 

    Try a lean ground turkey burger instead. Look for 90-95% lean. Keep it from being too dry by adding a bit of grated zucchini, a splash of milk, or beaten egg. A tablespoon of light mayo or a few squeeze of ketchup can also help. Be sure not to overwork the meat when you’re shaping it. 

    Here are some other alternatives to offer. 

    • Skinless chicken is a great lean option. Bake or grill it for kids who like simple foods. 
    • If your children like chicken nuggets, make healthier versions. Dip chicken tenderloin in egg whites and coat it with whole-grain cracker crumbs or breadcrumbs, oats, or almond meal. Bake it on a sprayed cookie sheet.
    • Veggie burgers. They’re fun for kids who like colors and textures. Different varieties may have garbanzo beans, black beans, yellow corn, green peas, orange carrots, quinoa, oats, and more. 

    Whole-Grain Buns and Wraps

    Why waste space and calories with a white bun when a whole-wheat bun is just as easy to come by? Both hot dog and hamburger buns are usually available in a generic or store brand version, so they’re affordable. Whole-grain tortillas can also be great choices for hot dogs. Kids get a kick out of a rolled-up hot dog. 

    Choosing a whole-grain bun is an easy way to boost whole grains and fiber. That’s important because a typical American gets less than half of the recommended amounts of whole grains and fiber, but these are linked to lower risk for obesity, type 2 diabetes, and heart disease. Remember to offer the bun toasted if your children may enjoy it more that way.

    For yourself, consider portion control. A smaller, store-brand whole-wheat hamburger bun can have about 120 calories. A national brand, larger bun can have 200 or more calories and 35 or more grams of carbohydrates. 

    If you’re going low-carb, consider a low-carb tortilla, low-carb wrap, or naked dog or burger. 

    Sneak More Nutrients into the Burger

    You’ve given your kids a great start with a whole-grain bun and lean protein for the filling, but it’s okay to push for more! If your goal is to get as much nutrition as possible into the burger and your child’s belly, here are some more ideas. 

    • Mashed or pureed ripe avocado for heart-healthy fats and a creamy texture
    • American cheese slices or a slice of another type of hard cheese for protein and calcium.
    • Meatless bacon
    Give your children enough healthy choices, and they are sure to end up with a healthy meal that they love.

    If you do opt for process cheese, just read the nutrition facts and ingredients. Look for a brand that has protein and calcium. Some varieties are made mostly with starch, and don’t have much protein.

    Healthy Toppings and Condiments

    Some children love toppings. Others prefer their food plain. A squeeze of ketchup is probably the most popular choice for kids. Grown-ups can enjoy relish, yellow mustard, dijon mustard, or spicy brown mustard for a low-calorie condiment. 

    For yourself, feel free to make a more filling burger or hot dog by piling it high with grilled onions and peppers, mushrooms cooked in a small amount of broth, or lettuce and tomato. 

    Kid-Friendly Vegetable Sides

    Instead of a hot dog and chips or a burger and fries, serve plenty of appetizing vegetables. For example, for a crunchy side, skip potato chips. Instead, cut sodium and fat, and add vegetables and nutrients  with baked kale chips. Shred kale leaves, toss them in olive oil and sea salt or parmesan cheese, and bake them on a sprayed cookie sheet. 

    Instead of French fries, try baked strips of sweet potato, zucchini, carrots, green beans, or parsnip. They’re delicious and far healthier choices than fried potatoes, and many children like these choices. 

    Colorful finger foods may be enticing enough to get your children to eat vegetables. Let them choose their favorites!

    If you need more vegetables for yourself, serve a side salad. It’s easy, filling, and low in calories. 

    Bon Appetit!

    Depending on your children’s ages and abilities, consider involving them to various degrees. Older children may be able to help you set the table and prepare some foods, like coating chicken with breadcrumbs, mashing avocado, or tossing kale with olive oil and parmesan. Children may enjoy assembling their own burger or hot dog and toppings. Even younger children may appreciate you asking how they want their burger or dog, and which sides they prefer. 

    End a meal with fresh fruit instead of a sugar-sweetened dessert, and your child may be just as happy.

    How do you get a quick, healthy lunch or dinner on the table for your whole family? How do you serve it? Please tell me your ideas!

  • Why We Don’t Own a Car (And Why It Works for Us)

    Most Americans have cars, but we don’t. We walk to get to most places, we use grocery delivery services and walking for groceries, and we are able to borrow my parents’ car for all necessities and some fun. Here’s why I choose not to purchase a car, and how we make do.

    Getting Around by Borrowing a Car

    To be clear, I have good access to a car. My parents own one. It was new in 2001. It has 30,000 miles on it – which you can see means that none of us drive much! Since they’re out of town more than half of the year, it works out for both parties if I drive their car when they’re gone. I usually take it out once a week to take my son somewhere that’s not within walking distance. We may stop at a supermarket to buy something heavy if it’s on the way. 

    My parents own a car and let us borrow it. It’s far from a Mercedes, but it works!

    Cost Benefits of Not Owning a Car

    It’s expensive to purchase and own a car. There’s the initial investment of $5,000-$50,000, depending on factors like whether you buy a new or used car, and what make and model you purchase. Then there’s insurance, gas, and repairs. A common estimate is about $12,000 annually. 

    There are estimates comparing the cost of owning a car to the cost of using a rideshare like Uber or Lyft. The breakeven point may be around 6,000-8,000 miles per year; that is, if you drive more than that, you should be a car. If you drive less than that, take rideshares. 

    Responsibility Benefits of Not Owning a Car

    Cars are a headache, unless you’re one of those people who loves cars, takes pride in them, and enjoys taking care of them. I’m not. To me, they’re a form of transportation with no emotional benefits. So, I’m just as happy not to worry about maintaining a car, getting it serviced, and handling repairs. (Of course, when I’m responsible for my parents’ car, I do all of those things, such as replacing the radiator last year when necessary). 

    Environmental Benefits of Using Cars Less

    The environmental benefits may be most impressive of all, though I can’t claim that the environment has been the deciding factor in my choice not to own a car. 

    Every time you walk a mile instead of drive one, you’re saving about:

    • 400 grams of carbon dioxide (CO2) emissions (or 150 for an electric vehicle)
    • 3-7 gallons of water

    Walking causes about 90% fewer greenhouse gas emissions compared to driving. 

    Having fewer cars on the road also reduces environmental impact from things like repairing roads. 

    Health Benefits of Walking

    Walking instead of driving is a form of exercise. It’s good for me, and it’s an easy way to get an extra few minutes of walking with my son. We can talk while walking, and both of us can use the movement and fresh air. 

    Let’s face it: most Americans would probably be healthier if they had to park their cars ⅓ of a mile away. They’d think before driving and possibly walk instead of driving sometimes if they knew they had to walk 7 minutes to get to their car and another 7 minutes to walk home after using and parking the car. 

    How Else We Get Around

    With a car being just a small portion of our transportation, how do we get where we need to go? We walk to most places. We take the bus or subway occasionally. 

    Walking Most Places

    We walk most places. Here are some of our frequent destinations. 

    • My son’s school is ½ mile away. 
    • My parents’ house is ⅓ mile away. 
    • A supermarket with great prices on produce is 1.25 miles away. 
    • The park where my son likes to play is ½ mile away. 
    • The public library is 0.75 miles away. 

    Plus, since my son attends the local public school, most of his friends live within a mile of school, or within walking distance for us. 

    As you can see, most of our life is within walking distance!

    Public Transportation

    Public busses are fun, but they’re not always frequent where we live.

    We live in a city with notoriously inadequate public transportation. We don’t take it much for necessities, but we do take it a lot for fun. It’s a way to get places without using a car, and it’s easy to take my son’s bike on board a bus or subway. Plus, kids and students get free rides, so I only have to pay for myself.

    Drawbacks of Not Owning a Car

    It’s definitely less convenient not to have a car. There are many times when I would like to just get in the car and go somewhere, whether to a store, to pick up my son, or just to get away. It is a little harder to arrange playdates that are out of walking range, doctor and dentist appointments, and other things that are too far to walk to. And sometimes I simply don’t feel like asking my parents for yet another favor like borrowing the car, especially when it’s not something essential. 

    No Car in My Future…But What About My Son?

    I don’t expect to ever purchase my own car. I don’t like driving, and as rideshares and self-driving vehicles become more mainstream, I can’t see myself needing to take on the headache of owning a car. 

    I wonder if my son will want his own car, though. I can imagine that after so many years – his whole life – of needing to think carefully before going anywhere or plan anything, he may feel that having his own car gives him immense freedom. 

    If he gets one, I hope he’ll give me rides sometimes.

  • Peanut Butter Adventures, Episode 1

    Here’s the first installment of my adventures with peanut butter. Sure, I have a growing boy at home, but there’s more to the story. I’ve been making peanut butter sandwiches for a local food pantry for a year. Now, I’m going to hand out jars of peanut butter when I see a need on the streets. Hope you love the adventure! 

    For now, let’s just talk about peanut butter. Next time, we’ll get into some adventures. 

    Peanut Butter as an American Institution

    Peanut butter is one of the best all-around foods. It’s convenient, inexpensive, nutritious, and delicious. Those reasons are probably why peanut butter sandwiches are the most popular plant-based sandwiches in the US according to USDA data. (If you’re curious, the popularity of cold cut sandwiches, burgers, and hot dogs outweighs the popularity of peanut butter sandwiches). 

    How Much Peanut Butter Are We Talking About?

    Americans consume an average of 4.4 pounds of peanut butter per year. That’s more than 60 2-tablespoon servings, or 4.5 16-ounce jars. For a family of four that consumes the average amount, that comes out to 18 jars of peanut butter per year, or about 1 jar every 3 weeks. 

    If you’re a peanut butter-loving household, I bet you have far more than that! Schoolchildren could easily eat 5 peanut butter sandwiches a week for the duration of the school year, or about 35 weeks. That adds up to 105 sandwiches, or more than 7 jars of peanut butter. That’s before adding in snacks and PB sandwiches on vacation! 

    How Much Peanut Butter in Peanut Butter Adventures?

    My household goes through far more than 18 jars of peanut butter a year. My son eats some, but not that much (and to be fair, a lot of his peanut butter consumption is at breakfast at my parents’ house!). 

    I estimate we go through 150 jars a year! That’s because I make sandwiches every week for a local food pantry. I use 3 jars most weeks, or enough for 30-40 sandwiches. I’m definitely doing my part to support the peanut butter industry! 

    Now, I’ve started carrying around a jar of peanut butter to give away to people who seem to need it. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people in my neighborhood who are grateful for something that is so affordable to me. 

    How to Make Peanut Butter

    Peanut butter is magical to me. Just put peanuts in a blender, and puree them until they turn into thick, sticky peanut butter. For a more spreadable texture, add 1-2 spoonfuls of oil. For flavor, add salt. It’s so simple!

    Peanut butter that you buy in stores can range from 100% peanuts to having ingredients like sugar, salt, and solid fats from hydrogenated soybean oil or tropical oils like palm oil. You’ll pay for the privilege of having natural, organic peanut butter with nothing but peanuts, but if you look around, there can be compromises, like peanut butter without hydrogenated oils. 

    Of course, there are all kinds of variations on peanut butter. Flavors of peanut butter include cinnamon, cocoa, and white chocolate. For decades, there’ve been jars of peanut butter and jelly stripes to make sandwich-making easier. 

    A Convenient and Nutritious Food

    Peanut butter needs no refrigeration. It’s ready to eat. It’s cholesterol-free, low in saturated fat, and high in healthy monounsaturated fats. It’s a source of plant-based protein, and it has dietary fiber. At about $2 per 16-ounce jar for a store brand of peanut butter, it’s remarkably inexpensive. I’ll go into cost comparisons with other foods in another post. 

    Healthy Ways to Use Peanut Butter

    A peanut butter sandwich on whole-grain sliced bread is one healthy choice for peanut butter. Here are a few variations on classic PB sandwiches. 

    Peanut butter on whole-grain bread has fiber and antioxidants.
    • Peanut butter on whole-grain tortilla or wrap, wrapped around a banana
    • Diced stewed (or microwaved) apple or pear with cinnamon on PB and whole-grain bread or toast
    • Peanut butter on half a whole-grain bagel, with pear slices

    Peanut butter is good for way more than sandwiches. 

    • Dip celery, carrots, apple slices, or pear slices into peanut butter.
    • Blend frozen banana chunks with peanut butter and cinnamon, cocoa powder, or voila extract.
    • Thin out creamy peanut butter to make a sauce for an Asian-inspired dish with whole-grain spaghetti
    • Add peanut butter to oatmeal or whole-wheat pancake batter, or top whole-grain pancakes or waffles with peanut butter instead of butter.
    • Top oatmeal, yogurt, or cottage cheese with peanut butter and fruit.

    For a healthier dessert, stuff dates with peanut butter – just watch the calories, since they add up fast!

    More Ways to Enjoy Peanut Butter

    If you’re looking for a treat without worrying about nutrition, there are any number of ways to enjoy peanut butter. 

    • Classic PB&J sandwich with white bread, peanut butter, and grape or strawberry jelly. Honey is another option.
    Peanut butter and jelly on white bread may be a happy memory from childhood for many people.
    • Peanut butter cookies or peanut butter oatmeal cookies. 
    • Peanut butter bars and peanut butter cheesecake.
    • Peanut butter frosted brownies or cake.
    • Energy balls with peanut butter, oats, sugar, honey, or powdered sugar, and cocoa powder. 
    • Peanut butter-filled pretzels
    • Peanut butter milkshakes and smoothies with added sugars.
    • Peanut butter pie, with or without whipped topping blended in or on top, and on a chocolate, graham cracker, or standard pie crust

    I’m excited to keep using peanut butter and giving it away. I’ll keep you posted on how my peanut butter adventures go!

    How do you use peanut butter?

  • Reasons to Eat Dairy: Should You Have More?

    Many people accept non-dairy substitutes as healthier than dairy products, but is it really best to avoid milk, yogurt, and cheese? Here’s a look at dairy recommendations, average consumption in the US, and nutrients in dairy products versus dairy-free substitutes. We’ll also look at why many people avoid dairy products and why you should…or shouldn’t. 

    Dairy Recommendations and Average Consumption

    The Dietary Guidelines suggest that adults get about 3 servings (“cup-equivalents”) per day of dairy products, with most choices being low in fat. Here are examples of 1 cup-equivalent servings.. 

    • 1 cup of skim milk or reduced-fat milk, kefir, or buttermilk
    • 1.5 ounces of low-fat or non-fat cheese like non-fat singles or low-fat cheddar, mozzarella, or Swiss cheese
    • 1 cup of low-fat or fat-free plain yogurt

    Camembert, feta, cotija, cottage cheese, ricotta cheese, and ice cream also count as dairy products. 

    The guidelines note that cream, sour cream, and cream cheese don’t count due to low calcium and protein content. Butter also doesn’t count. 

    Americans are low in dairy consumption. Men get about ⅔ of recommended amounts, and women get less than half. 

    Nutrients in Dairy Products and Non-Dairy Substitutes

    Important nutrients in dairy products are protein, calcium, and vitamin D. 

    • Protein in dairy products is high-quality or complete. It has all the essential amino acids.
    • Calcium is essential for strong bones, and most people don’t consume enough. This increases risk for osteoporosis later in life, which increases the risk of fractures. 
    • Vitamin D is in fortified milk and in some fortified cheeses and yogurt products. 

    Dairy products are among the main sources of calcium and vitamin D in our diets. 

    It’s also interesting that research studies find that people who consume more dairy products tend to have lower body weights.

    Start your day with yogurt, fruit, and seeds for a balanced and nutrient-dense breakfast.

    Non-dairy substitutes are likely to be low in protein, though they’re often high in calcium and vitamin D. They are also often fortified with vitamin B12, which is important if you’re on a vegan or plant-based diet. The only natural sources of vitamin B12 are animal-based foods like dairy products, eggs, and meat. 

    Reasons People May Avoid Dairy

    There are many reasons why some people should or need to choose dairy-free options. Some people may have milk allergies, when their immune system mounts a dangerous response to proteins in milk. It’s critical to avoid the specific proteins in dairy products that cause reactions, though the response is unrelated to lactose. 

    Lactose intolerance may be the best known reason for avoiding dairy products. It’s when your body has inadequate amounts of the enzyme lactase. This leads to trouble breaking down lactose, which is the type of sugar naturally present in cow’s milk. It’s not life-threatening, but consuming too much lactose can cause unpleasant gastrointestinal symptoms including diarrhea and an upset stomach.

    A glass of milk can be a good post-workout replenishment snack with protein and carbohydrates.

    Some people may avoid dairy because of the saturated fat content. For example, an ounce of brie cheese has 6 grams of saturated fat, though it’s not clear whether saturated fat in dairy products is as harmful as from fatty meat. People may also be concerned about cholesterol intake, though research supports that a diet low in saturated fat is far more important than cholesterol consumption.

    Here are more reasons why people may choose to avoid dairy.

    • They’ve heard that dairy products are unhealthy.
    • They don’t like the taste of milk, or they prefer the taste of almond milk or oat milk.
    • They don’t want calories from milk, and would prefer to drink something lower in calories like almond milk or water.
    • They don’t want sodium from cheese.
    • They don’t like the sour taste of plain yogurt and they don’t want the added sugars or sweeteners in flavored yogurt.

    How Much Dairy Can You Tolerate?

    Some people need to avoid dairy products entirely due to allergies or severe lactose intolerance. Still, most people with lactose intolerance can tolerate some lactose. Talk to your doctor if you’re not sure!

    In an article published in Evidence Reports/Technology Assessments, researchers looked at how much lactose people who reported being lactose intolerant could have at one time without symptoms. They found that the vast majority of participants in studies did not report symptoms until they had at least 12 grams of lactose. 

    In comparison, an ounce of cheese may have 1-3 grams of lactose. A single-serve container of Greek yogurt has about 6 grams. A cup of milk may have 12 grams of lactose. 

    If you’re determined to drink milk and get all of the nutrients it has, but you can’t handle lactose, consider lactose-free milk. 

    Easy Ways to Boost Dairy Consumption

    A fruit and cheese platter can be a nutritious and satisfying alternative to a sugar-sweetened dessert.

    Here are ways to add dairy products to your day for more protein and calcium.

    • Have yogurt or milk with cereal.
    • Make oatmeal with milk, or make overnight oatmeal with yogurt or cottage cheese.
    • Choose sliced cheese instead of processed meat for sandwiches and in salads.
    • Add cheese to eggs instead of adding sausage or bacon pieces.
    • Have cereal with milk or yogurt.
    • Use parmesan cheese and ground almonds for breading instead of white bread crumbs.
    • Top vegetables with cheese.
    • Use low-fat string cheese sticks instead of meat sticks for snacks.
    • Have cheese and fruit instead of sugar-sweetened foods for dessert.
    • Add milk to your coffee or tea.
    • Drink milk after a workout to support muscle recovery and to replenish glycogen (stored carbohydrates).
    • Make dips with cottage cheese or yogurt.

    How much dairy do you consume? Are there certain types you love and can tolerate? Do you choose non-dairy substitutes sometimes? 

  • Does “Dairy-Free” Mean Healthy? Is It Better for Weight Loss?

    When I talk to people who are trying to lose weight or eat healthier, they often tell me they’re choosing dairy-free options like coconut milk, almond yogurt, or cashew cheese. They’re often shocked to find out that these options often don’t help them reach their protein goals, and may not even have fewer calories or more nutrients than dairy products. 

    Are you choosing dairy-free alternatives to cow’s milk, cheese, and yogurt? Think about these. 

    • Almond or oat milk at coffee shops instead of milk or cream
    • Almond or soy-based yogurt 
    • Cashew-containing cheese alternatives

    These options are now available in grocery stores, at coffee shops, and at schools as they become more popular compared to dairy products. But are dairy-free alternatives always the healthiest choice? 

    Non-Dairy Products May Lack Protein

    When you think of nutrients in milk, cheese, and yogurt, you might think of protein. Milk and yogurt each have about 8 grams of protein per cup, while cheese has about 6-7 grams of protein per ounce. This is about the amount in an egg. Greek yogurt can have 15-20 grams of protein per cup, or the amount in 2-3 ounces of fish or chicken.

    Check the label instead of assuming dairy-free cheese has calcium and protein!

    Protein is an essential nutrient that helps you stay full for longer after a meal or snack, but it’s often lacking in plant-based dairy alternatives. Soy milk has a good amount of protein, but a cup of almond milk has only 1-2 grams. Even something that sounds healthy, like cashew cheese, has less than 1 gram of protein per ounce, despite a price tag that’s about 3-4 times as expensive as dairy-based cheese.

    Watch Out for Calcium and Bone Health

    Dairy products are still the major source of calcium in our diets. People who avoid dairy products are more likely to be low in calcium, leading to osteoporosis and a higher risk for fractures later in life. A serving of dairy products, whether a cup of milk or yogurt, or an ounce of cheese, often has 15-30% of the daily value for calcium. In addition, it’s highly absorbable.

    Dairy-free alternatives are often fortified with calcium, but not always. It’s a good idea to read the label when you’re choosing a product. While you’re reading the nutrition facts panel, look for items with 10-30% of vitamin D. It helps your body absorb and use calcium so your bones get full benefit.

    Benefits of Non-Dairy Alternatives

    Non-dairy alternatives can have some health benefits. Many of them are designed to support people on vegan, or plant-based, diets. For that reason, they’re often high in vitamin B12, which is only naturally found in animal-based products. 

    In addition, unsweetened almond milk and unsweetened coconut milk have 30-40 calories per cup, which is less than half the amount as in 1 cup of fat-free milk. Plant-based milks are naturally cholesterol-free, unlike cow’s milk. 

    Many people enjoy non-dairy alternatives more. They can be creamier or sweeter. They can also have a longer shelf life, which is important for people living alone or who only take milk in their cereal or coffee, for example. 

    What’s the Right Choice for Health and Weight Loss?

    It’s important to make the right choice for yourself. Consider factors like the following.

    • Do I need more protein for health and to feel fuller?
    • How much calcium is there?
    • Are there extra ingredients that I don’t want?
    • What other nutrients have been added?
    • Can I afford it?

    The bottom line is to know your reasons for choosing dairy products or dairy-free alternatives. Check nutrition facts panels and the list of ingredients for calories, nutrients, and ingredients you’re curious about. Whenever you’re unsure, ask your healthcare provider. It’s always good to get trusted and professional advice!

    Oat and almond milk can be low-calorie alternatives to creamer, which can be helpful for weight loss and heart health.

  • What Everyone Wants to Know: What was at the July 4 Potluck?

    I posted my reflections from the Fourth, talking about balancing healthy food and activity choices with the just-as-critical need for socialization, fun, and relaxation that can recharge you for the coming weeks and months. Today, let’s keep it light-hearted with a run-down of the food and beverages at the potluck I attended. 

    It was an afternoon block party with 100’s of attendees from the neighborhood. The hosts asked attendees to bring something to share. Unlike at many potlucks, there were no guidelines on what to bring, or who should bring items in various categories like beverages, appetizers, proteins, sides, desserts, condiments, and tableware. We did all know that there was a grill, and that it was a casual event.

    Spoiler alert: it worked out beautifully!

    Setting the Scene

    When my son and I arrived, we went straight to the food tables to drop off our contributions. As I had asked my mom to bake and bring a dessert, my son and I felt free to be lazy. We brought a package of napkins, a bottle of light ranch salad dressing, a bottle of honey mustard, and a can of whipped topping. There turned out to be a large bowl of fruit including berries, grapes, and tangerines, making the whipped topping look ideal. 

    There were 4 long tables with food and tableware, about 6 coolers filled with alcoholic and kid-friendly beverages, and a table with ice and more beverages. The tables were vaguely organized with plates, napkins, and plastic ware first, followed by items related to grilled foods, followed by sides, desserts, and finally beverages. It was all refreshingly casual and hands-off – you were free to put your food down and take whatever you wanted whenever you wanted.

    The Food at the Fourth of July Block Party and Potluck

    So what was there? Pretty much everything was there. People had brought raw proteins, including hot dogs, beef burger patties, and even salmon. There were also pans of cooked proteins, including pigs in blankets and chicken drumsticks. Hot dog, hamburger, and brioche buns were abundant, as were condiments from ketchup, pickles, and relish to several different types of mustard. Our honey mustard fit right in.

    There were more meatballs than you might see at a typical event, probably because the day’s cookoff item was meatballs. Merguez meatballs with a side of cooked carrots, meatballs with tomato sauce, and meatballs with pickles were a few varieties. They all looked delicious, suitable for a contest, and made with a good amount of fatty beef or pork. 

    Next up were side dishes. It looked like a lot of people put their hearts into their homemade recipes. Salad examples were salmon and pea rotini salad, spaghetti salad, tomato balsamic salad with mushrooms, chopped basil, and mozzarella balls, and a few kinds of coleslaw, none of which contained mayonnaise. There were also various 7-layer bean dips.

    There was even a simple vegetable tray that had home-cut vegetables, which is a rare sight these days. It had red and yellow bell pepper strips, rainbow baby carrots, Persian cucumber spears, and celery sticks. I helped myself to quite a bit, and enjoyed the honey mustard I’d brought with the vegetables. 

    Desserts included two beautiful pumpkin loaves from my mom, sliced into appropriately-sized pieces. One loaf had a chocolate swirl topping. Other desserts were cheesecake bars topped with berries, watermelon wedges, and brownies.

    The beverage selection was quite a treat! There was alcohol of all descriptions. There was homemade lemonade – a 5-gallon container that must have taken forever for someone to make – as well as a 5-gallon pitcher of ice water infused with strawberries and mint. Cans of sparkling water, ouches of juice drinks, and sodas were also there, along with plenty of ice. 

    My son and I weren’t the only ones to bring store-bought items. The other store-bought items that we saw had also been chosen carefully and given with love. Classic mayo-laden potato salad, sliced cheese for the burgers, bags of potato chips, tubs of hummus and guacamole, large chocolate chunk cookies, boxes of doughnuts, and red, white, and blue star cookies are a few examples. 

    How Anyone Can Make Healthy Choices

    Here’s what I focused on, though I probably still ate more than I needed.

    • Raw vegetables. They were so fresh and good!
    • Pickles. I don’t usually buy pickles because I don’t need the extra sodium, but I do love pickles. 
    • Tomatoes and mozzarella balls sitting in balsamic vinaigrette. They were halved grape tomatoes, and absolutely delicious.
    • A few goodies from my son’s plate. Isn’t that what kids are for? I think we all know that when you eat from your child’s plate, the calories, sugar, and fat don’t count…
    • Strawberry and mint-infused ice water was a beautiful, refreshing, and healthy touch.

    What Do Americans Eat on July Fourth?

    I can only tell you my experience, but it is a sample size of hundreds of families. Here’s what I found.

    • Burgers and hot dogs with all the fixings
    • Coleslaw, pasta salad, and potato salad
    • Watermelon and other fresh fruit
    • Sugary drinks, alcoholic drinks, and low-calorie drinks
    • Desserts, and more desserts
    • Chips, vegetables, and dip

    Conclusions: as with most other situations, you can eat healthy, eat terribly, or do something in between. 

    What did you eat this Independence Day?

  • Reflections from the Fourth: Balancing Family, Fun, and Physical and Mental Well-Being

    Reflections from the Fourth: Balancing Family, Fun, and Physical and Mental Well-Being

    Holidays like the Fourth of July can be tricky for anyone trying to make healthy choices, so it’s important to balance your choices. Some choices – like grilling skinless chicken instead of a ground beef patty – may help you make progress towards your health and weight goals today. Other decisions – like staying out later than usual to watch fireworks – may seem like a short-term physical setback, but they can strengthen your foundation for longer-term success. 

    Here’s how my Fourth of July panned out – and it wasn’t entirely healthy!

    Promises and Challenges of a Summer Holiday

    The Fourth of July can feel so promising because of a day off of work, a general good mood around the household and neighborhood, and the prospect of attending local events. Our local opportunities include a pancake breakfast fundraiser in a community center parking lot, a local parade in which anyone can march or ride, a gathering at a park with doughnuts, watermelon, and community police who let children go into their cars, and a block party that includes a potluck, raffle, and kid-friendly activities. We’re lucky to have so much nearby!

    It’s not all positive, though! First, most parents will tell you that holidays are challenging. There’s no school or summer camp, which means children are at home. Their company can be a delight, and they can inject excitement and joy into a holiday that may otherwise barely be a blip on the radar, but there’s no denying that it takes more energy to have a child at home than not. 

    Food is another July 4 challenge – it’s everywhere from parades to day-time and fireworks-watching potlucks and gatherings. You can easily consume thousands of calories from standard fare like the following. 

    • Fatty steaks, burgers, and hot dogs, and cheese and buns that come with them
    • Potato salad, pasta salad, and coleslaw
    • Mayonnaise, guacamole, hummus, and salad dressings
    • Pies, cupcakes, brownies, and doughnuts

    That’s before adding in calories from lemonade, sodas, and alcoholic beverages. 

    Other challenges to pursuing your health goals can include disruptions to your routine such as sleeping in instead of exercising, socializing instead of cooking, and watching fireworks instead of starting your bedtime routine. 

    Independence Day Food Opportunities and Strategies

    Throughout the day, you’re likely to find nutritious or low-calorie choices like watermelon, corn on the cob, grilled chicken or veggie burgers, and raw vegetables. Load up your plate with these types of food!

    Limit creamy salads like coleslaw and mayo-laden potato and pasta salad. Look for green salads, cowboy caviar with beans and vegetables, and other vibrant options like caprese salad or other light, vegetable-based dishes. Use Dijon or yellow mustard and a small amount of ketchup on burgers or veggie dogs. 

    If you’re going to a potluck, bring a dish or some components that are healthy. 

    • A fruit or vegetable platter, or berries, watermelon wedges, or baby carrots
    • Skinless chicken or a package of lean ground turkey patties or veggie burgers to grill
    • Light condiments like mustard and vinaigrette dressing
    • A package of whole-grain hamburger or hot dog buns, or whole-grain tortillas or wraps

    Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Bring your own full water bottle if you’re not sure that there will be water available. 

    More Tips for Better Physical and Mental Health on Independence Day

    I had a wonderful Independence Day. A good deal of it was due to being a lucky parent. My parents were willing – as always when they’re in town! – to watch my son while I took time to run, shoot some hoops in the park, and have a few thoughts by myself. 

    Another stroke of luck is that my son is a marvelous child on special days like holidays. He is excited about events, and engaged and interested. That makes it easier to hang out with him, exhausting though it can be. 

    Another suggestion might be to keep perspective. It didn’t seem all that important to start food fights with my son; instead, we appreciated the special food. My hope is that he’ll learn to enjoy special food without guilt. I also want him to grow up without a sense of desperation to eat it all, as some adults develop because they’re afraid they won’t have another chance. 

    It also seemed more important to enjoy the block party with the neighbors than to worry about whether he was eating a doughnut. Everyone looks forward to it every year; we do, too. The abundance of food may not be the best for weight management in the moment, but the friendships and a sense of community come in handy throughout the year as we depend on each other during life’s ups and downs. 

    So, I would say this July 4 was a great time, I’m ready to eat healthy tomorrow, and I am grateful for all that I have – family, friends, and my neighborhood. 

    How do you find balance on July 4 and other holidays?

    fireworks on July 4
  • Benefits of Adequate Sleep — I’m Feeling Them First-Hand!

    Benefits of Adequate Sleep — I’m Feeling Them First-Hand!

    Sleep has so many benefits. As I try to figure out how to start my blog. I want it to be positive, useful, and timely. Since I’m feeling a little down about work and home, I think it’s a good idea to focus on something that did go well recently: sleep!

    Last week, we returned home after a 9-night vacation. It was a wonderful trip, and I’ll write more later about healthy and less-healthy food, tons of physical activity, and running and being a tourist in the heat. For now, I’ll talk about sleeping. 

    At home, I run 6 days a week, and wake to an alarm clock each of those days. So, I only sleep as long as I can one day a week. On our vacation, I slept without an alarm clock for several mornings in a row for the first time in years, excluding some time in 2022 when I was in the hospital, which wasn’t exactly restful. 

    I averaged about 11 hours a night. My son, age 8, averaged about 12 hours a night. We agreed that we could have slept longer, too! Our hotel was wonderful; the beds were comfortable, the room was dark and quiet, and I’d brought my own pillow and an electric blanket. Yes, it’s summer and we were in a hot place, but I need heat to sleep!

    The week-plus of sleeping as much as I wanted was like magic. I felt so much better. I could think better, and my muscles didn’t hurt so much. I knew I’d been short on sleep, as I’d been taking naps for months before the trip. And I knew from experience that everything feels better with adequate sleep. 

    Of course, there’s a ton of research on the benefits of sleep. It helps with blood sugar control and hunger. It reduces cravings and encourages healthier food choices. It increases energy so it’s easier to exercise. It reduces accidents, and improves mood. 


    So why don’t we all get enough sleep every night? 

    There are a lot of reasons, which we can talk about another time! For now, let me just encourage you – and myself – to get enough sleep tonight!

    Thanks for reading, and please let me know in the comments how you feel about sleep!