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  • The Habit That Builds Healthy Families Now and Forever – It’s Not Diet or Exercise

    The Habit That Builds Healthy Families Now and Forever – It’s Not Diet or Exercise

    We’ve been talking about ways to add in healthy behaviors during routine days of late winter. In case you missed them, check our tips for establishing healthy eating patterns and exercise routines for the family, as well as supporting sleep, energy, and mental health for kids and parents in a positive environment. 

    There’s another area to focus on when thinking about laying the groundwork for a strong and healthy family now and forever. It’s connection. Being in a family is a privilege. By recognizing and celebrating joy in routine interactions, you can create an environment where kids and adults can feel safe, support each other, and find more happiness in everyday moments. Here’s how to strengthen family connections, build trust, and fortify your family now and in years to come.

    Greetings and Farewells Set the Tone

    How you greet someone makes all the difference. A friendly greeting says that you are happy to be in the presence of that person. It signals that they’re your priority. You’re there for them. Additionally, your day just got better because you’re with them. 

    If you’re not sure how to show that you’re thrilled to start the day or be reunited with your kids, consider these simple signs. 

    • Use their name when you say hi.
    • Make eye contact.
    • Smile.
    • Give a big wave, high-five, or hug.

    Simple? Yes. Life-changing? Potentially. 

    A proper greeting is appropriate when you say good morning and pick them up from school and afterschool activities. But it’s also appropriate when they come into the room you’re in. What a wonderful home environment it is when your kids know they’re wanted!

    Ordinary Moments Build Relationships

    Special activities undeniably build lasting memories, but ordinary moments build relationships. Whether you’re actively working together or you’re just in each other’s presence, you can communicate your joy at being together.

    Simple time together is valuable for everyone.
    • Invite your kids to help with a task you’re working on.
    • Start reading out loud or playing a game they like so they can join in.
    • Set them up with an independent task or game so you can work alongside them.

    You can be together, separately, but living life together. You’re giving them the confidence that they can do it, and you’ll be by their side.

    Connect Before Correcting: The 10:1 Rule

    Criticism is hard to take, but it has a significant impact. In fact, people need to hear about 7-10 positive comments to balance out the effects of a single negative comment. That goes for kids, too.

    Kids need to feel secure, loved, and accepted before they’ll respond to suggestions or criticism. That makes it especially important to shower them with positivity throughout the day. If they misbehave, lead with a positive comment. 

    • “Thank you for trying.”
    • “I know that was a tough situation.”
    • “I saw that you felt overwhelmed, and I know you were trying to handle it.”

    Make sure your child feels secure before you try to correct any type of behavior. There’s no point in correcting them if they’re not receptive. They’re incapable of receiving your correction if they’re not perfectly relaxed and confident.

    Take a deep breath, and lead with a positive comment. If nothing comes to mind, a hug works fine. There’s no need to rush the criticism. 

    Longer term, this sets the tone for adolescents to be able to trust you with their more serious concerns. Kids who know their parents accept them and will help them turn into adolescents with that same confidence.

    Protect a Ritual

    Life is unpredictable, busy, and challenging – but you can establish a single ritual that’s dependable and comforting. It could be conversing at dinner, reading together (out loud or side by side) at night, or doing the weekly grocery shopping together. 

    Regular trips to the zoo can be a family tradition that allows for good conversations and lasting memories.

    These rituals become anchor memories. Your children will remember them fondly, and feel a closer connection with you. These rituals can be simple and short. The only requirement is that they occur. 

    Getting Started with Joy in Everyday Interactions

    Assess your current actions and reactions so you know where you can strengthen family connections. Ask yourself:

    • “How do I react when my child walks into the room? What message does that send to my child?”
    • “When was the last time I participated with my child in something that was important to them, even if not to me?”
    • “What can I ask my child to teach me so they feel proud, capable, and valuable to me?”
    Keep games fun and not too serious. The important thing is to spend time together.

    Unlike many health-supporting behaviors – say, eating broccoli or going to boot camp before dawn, family connection is about joy. The goal is to appreciate and enjoy time with your family. It’s that simple, and it’s surprisingly effective at supporting physical and mental health, better behavior, and long-term success through a strong support system. 

    How do you support family connection? What’s something you can do today to foster closeness among your family?

  • A Birthday Celebration with an Old Friend Makes Me Grateful

    A Birthday Celebration with an Old Friend Makes Me Grateful

    We’ve been talking about routine days of mid-winter, and how to add healthy habits in diet and exercise, as well as family life, to those days. Here are some reflections about a weekend excursion that may not have included many nutrients or much exercise, but did focus on a wonderfully healthy social connection with a centenarian.

    A visit was long overdue, and a birthday celebration was the perfect reason to take her out. I can’t tell you which birthday she was celebrating; it might give her identity away. Yes, she’s that old, and she’s someone my son and I both value in our lives. She’s incredibly special, wise, funny, and giving. On a cloudy, mid-winter day, we went out for ice cream. Though the goal was to give her a treat, I am sure that got more out of the outing than I gave her.

    I Met Her and the “Gym Ladies” When She Was 87

    No joke. She was one of the “Gym Ladies.” When I met her, she had been working out with the other gym ladies for nearly 25 years. They are a fabulous bunch of women – interesting, kind, supportive, and wise. They would get on cardio machines next to each other and gab for 30, 60, or more minutes while working out. 

    They welcomed me with open arms. For years, we’d work out and talk together. We became good friends. They were the ones who threw me a baby shower when I was pregnant with my son. I stayed at the gym until it closed for COVID-19, and some of those women remain my closest friends.

    A Special Friendship with a Now-Centenarian

    This particular friend and I really hit it off. We have a lot in common, from political views to upbringing to sense of humor. We laughed our ways through years of workouts, but there was more. She’s insightful and understanding, too. Every time I came to her with a problem, she was able to see the bigger picture and offer some words of advice based on experience.

    I was always impressed by her life skills. She knew how to talk the cable company out of overcharging her, and how to get suspicious charges eliminated from her phone and wifi bills. She knew how to talk to people on the street or on the phone to avoid scams and get what she wanted. She was absolutely not a candidate for being a victim of scams against the elderly! 

    She’s a baby lover. She used to light up whenever she saw a baby or small child. If a parent had to bring a baby into the gym, she’d instantly get off her exercise machine to go to the baby. She couldn’t help it! 

    In fact, she popped into the hospital on the day my son was born. He was 6 hours old, I had gone through 31 hours of labor and a C-section, and she had the idea of dropping in on me that day! She brought another of the gym ladies, and those two have the honor, of course, of being my son’s oldest friends. 

    Centenarians are increasingly common in the U.S. The Census Bureau says that the number of centenarians, or people over 100 years old, increased from 53,364 in 2010 to 80,139 in 2020. That’s a 50% jump, and equivalent to about 2 in 10,000 people. My friend is among the 50% of female centenarians who live on their own. 

    Bringing Out the Best Side of My Son

    My son loves her as much as she loves him. She’s always made her home open to him and let him play with what he likes. He can feel her love, and he respects her. 

    On the Saturday two days before my friend’s birthday, my son and I came to pick her up at her house. He even washed his hands properly beforehand, knowing that he needs to be careful of her health. 

    She can walk just fine. Usually she uses a walker, but she asked my son to help her get to the car instead of using a walker. He rose to the occasion, being the perfect gentleman. Then he closed the door for her, folded the walker, and put it in the trunk. 

    A Casual Celebration to Be Thankful for

    We drove to the store where the ice cream shop was. Since she hadn’t been out for a while, I’d suggested we go to a supermarket where they sold ice cream scoops and had outdoor seating. We wandered around the store and then ordered ice cream – cookies and cream for all. Then we sat outside with the ice cream and chatted.

    Sometimes, health isn’t about the sugar and fat content. It’s about experiences and connections.

    The Secret to Longevity

    What’s the secret to longevity? Every centenarian has their own ideas. Drink wine. Don’t drink wine. Be active. Don’t be active. Eat a raw egg yolk every day. Take your vitamins. Stay away from supplements. Avoid red meat. Eat meat and potatoes. 

    The only things that are certain is that the proper genetics must be there, and no devastating accidents can occur.  

    In other words, there is not one formula for longevity, and especially for healthy aging. Here’s what I observe in my friend, though I can’t prove cause and effect. They may just be coincidences. 

    • Activity – She was a tomboy as a child, a mother of three, and a gym-goer until age 94.
    • Stubbornness – Don’t bother trying to persuade her otherwise if she has an idea about something.
    • Determination – If she was going to do it, she was going to do it. She told me that when she was a little girl, she didn’t tell her mother that she’d broken her ankle because she was afraid she’d get in trouble. She just walked herself to school like she did every morning. 
    • Resilience – She doesn’t let things drag her down. She looks forward. Maybe that came from her , but I suspect a lot of it is within her personality. 
    • Connection – She’s the one who taught me about Family Dinner on Wednesdays (I adopted that idea and my son and my parents and I have Family Lunch on Sundays). Plus, she maintains her friendships with the other Gym Ladies.

    If my son and I can learn anything from her, it may be to stay active, stay interested, and stay connected. The rest, we do the best we can. And, as she says, “Take it one day at a time.”

    Thank you, and Happy Birthday!

  • Transition Back to School: Last-Minute Tips to Reset Sleep and Schedules for Parents and Kids

    Transition Back to School: Last-Minute Tips to Reset Sleep and Schedules for Parents and Kids

    Did your family’s schedule shift while kids were off from school? That is common! But when school starts up again, it’s time to get up early, arrive at school on time, make it to afterschool activities, and finish homework in the evening – while saving time for badly needed daily downtime. 

    These are some common changes that need to happen. 

    • Go to bed earlier and get up earlier
    • Be more organized so mornings are less hectic, and evenings include homework time
    • Plan meals so they’re more predictable and balanced
    • Manage emotions of kids who may be tired, wish they could continue to have extra family time like they did during vacation, and feel pressure to perform well or behave well at school

    These may sound like a lot, but they’re necessary. Kids thrive on predictability and routine. It makes them feel safe, not to mention it help them get enough sleep, eat well, and learn better.

    Busy parents thrive on routine, too. Without planning, how else can you get it all done if you’re working, parenting, housekeeping, and trying to stay healthy? Schedules let you get enough sleep, get more done, and support your kids while you stress less.

    There may be a lot to think about, but it’s possible to re-establish a daily schedule that works for your family. You have a head start if you get your routine back a few days early, but even if school’s already started, there are things you can do to ease the transition. Here are some tips for getting enough sleep, and completing necessary tasks, without too much stress. Plus, you can learn what to watch for when looking for warning signs that your kids may need extra help. 

    Resetting Sleep After a School Break (Or After Going Back to School)

    First, forgive yourself. It’s common for kids to go to bed later and get up later during breaks. Ideally, shift the schedule back by 10-20 minutes a day, starting a few days before school starts. 

    If school’s already starting – or already started – and you didn’t shift sleep schedules back, don’t worry about it. Just have your kids get up on time the morning that school starts, and bedtime will follow naturally. 

    Use a bedtime routine to help kids get ready for sleep.

    Here are a couple of key points to remember. 

    • Kids are generally more resilient than adults. Waking up at what may seem like an impossibly early hour for you may not even feel early to them.
    • Kids follow your lead. If you act cool about it, they’re likely to follow suit. If you apologize and give them an opening to complain about it, they probably will. 
    • Distraction helps. Try waking them up and guiding them through morning routines to a special breakfast that they look forward to before getting everyone out the door. 

    Planning a Consistent Daily Schedule That’s Complete But Not Overfull

    To create a daily schedule, identify your anchor times first. These are times that you are unable to change and that you must accommodate. For families with kids, these times likely include school drop-off, school pick-up, and any afterschool events. If you’re working defined hours, the start and finish of your work day may also be anchor times. 

    From the anchor times, add in these additional events in your schedule.

    • Wake time: determined by how long you need to get up, get ready, and get out the door
    • Bedtime: Count back the number of hours from the wake time to determine bedtime
    • Bedtime routine: Starts 30-60 minutes before bedtime
    • Dinner time: Starts 3-4 hours before bedtime, or when everyone gets home from school, activities, and work

    To help yourself and your kids, consider writing out the schedule and posting it on the fridge or somewhere else where everyone can see it. Even kids who can’t yet read or understand the concept may take comfort in knowing that there’s a schedule to be followed. 

    Work together with kids to pack up the night before so everyone’s prepared to leave on time in the morning.

    Protect Downtime for Kids and Parents in a Busy Schedule

    Be sure to include downtime in your schedule. Kids need it, and you need it. Even if it takes the place of a formal activity here and there, it may do more good than packing another activity into the routine. Downtime lets kids and parents reduce stress, which lets them perform better and be happier and healthier. 

    Younger kids may need your guidance during down time. Activities to do together might include reading, playing games, building with blocks, or coloring. Some children don’t like to stop moving; those kids might like to play games like rolling a ball back and forth or building a pillow fort.

    Older kids might let you know what they want for downtime. They might want to be completely on their own, reading or watching a movie. They might want to hang out with you. Or, they might want to do something on their own, but have you in the room for company. 

    Set aside time for low-key family time.

    Remember to protect your own “me” time! If “relaxing” with your kids doesn’t feel so relaxing, save a different time period during the day for your own relaxation time by yourself or with your spouse. It can be during the day when kids are at school, or after the kids go to bed. 

    Starting Slow and Catching Up on Weekends

    Do you find it hard to get back to work after a break or vacation? Similarly, kids can struggle to get back into the swing of things at school. Consider setting aside extra time for homework in case it feels harder than it did before break. Be there to encourage kids, and try to recognize signs that they’re simply too tired to complete the assignment. If necessary, contact the teacher to ask for a later due date.

    Weekends can offer a great time to catch up on sleep and mental recovery. Let your whole family sleep as late as needed to make up for any lost sleep from early weekday mornings, but don’t let weekend bedtimes shift more than 30-60 minutes later than weekday bedtimes. Also take advantage of weekends for catching up on down time, family time, and outdoors time. These all help with mental health and a smoother transition back to school. 

    Keep in mind that going back to school shouldn’t be too traumatic for parents or kids. If something seems unreasonably difficult, or you notice persistent fatigue or mood changes in yourself or your kids, seek help. Ask your children’s pediatrician, call a mental health crisis line or parent stress line, or contact the school for more support.

    With some planning and strategizing, going back to school can let kids get back to learning and friends, and let you get back to having some non-parenting time.

  • A Healthy Transition Back to School After Break: Parent-Tested Tips

    A Healthy Transition Back to School After Break: Parent-Tested Tips

    Going back to school can be tough for families after a break. Winter break, for example, can be 2-3 weeks for many school children, and include holidays and other seasonal events. When kids are out of school, there’s less reason to follow a consistent routine, especially if parents are taking time off work. Sleep, eating, and activity patterns can be different or non-existent during break. 

    The return to school can feel scary if you’re worried about transitioning back to strict schedules, early mornings, and homework – but don’t worry. These tips can help you reset and ease the transition back to school and regular schedules. 

    Routines While Out of School: Looser But a Necessary Break

    When there’s no school or work to create a schedule, it’s likely that you’ll ease out of your regular routine. Sleep times may shift, and meal times may be less regimented. Instead of sitting down to balanced meals, many families shift to more takeout, snacking, and holiday treats. 

    On vacation, it’s good to take advantage of flexible schedules!

    There’s nothing wrong with this for the short-term. For many busy parents, it’s necessary to take a break from what feels like planning every aspect of life, the way you might when there are work, homework, and extracurricular activities to keep straight. Some mental down time can let you recharge for the rest of the year. 

    But that can lead to a rude awakening when real life kicks back in!

    A regular school day usually starts with a strict waking time followed by a busy morning. It may include packing lunches and homework, eating or packing breakfast, and some rushed discussions about afterschool pickup and activities. Later, there may be sports or other activities, dinner, and homework. A regular bedtime is essential for good health, since you’ll all be repeating the schedule tomorrow. 

    Getting Back into a Schedule – Including Sleep

    Planning your schedule ahead of time lets you fit the important things into each day without as much effort. When you’re consistent, your mind and body are more prepared. You have energy when it’s time to wake up, you’re tired when it’s time to sleep, and you’re hungry at meal times. 

    Thankfully, when school starts back up, there are a lot of set times that you can work around as you’re getting back on schedule! 

    • The start of the school day
    • The end of the school day
    • Any extracurricular activities
    • Any meetings you have, or a time you come home from work (or stop working)

    Use these events to your advantage as you reset your schedule. 

    School starts early in the morning, so you’ll need to get up on time. It can be challenging if your family has shifted to a later schedule over the holidays, but gradually shifting back can help. Wake up and go to sleep a few minutes earlier each day until your body’s clock is back to being on “school” time. 

    It helps to re-establish regular meal times and physical activity schedules, too. Try to get back to your typical family eating patterns and times so that your body and mind can go back to predicting when meal times and sleep times will be. 

    Make a To-Do List to Relieve Stress on Parents

    There’s a lot to do when school gets back in session, but you can use simple tools to make it easier on kids and parents. A simple to-do list or checklist can relieve the burden of trying to remember things. It can help you make sure everyone has what they need when leaving home in the mornings. It can also make your evening calmer. 

    Here’s what you might include on a daily checklist or to-do list. 

    • Pack backpacks, which might include lunches, water bottles, and homework.
    • Check for gym clothes (older kids), instruments, sports equipment, or other items needed for extracurricular activities that day or the next day. 
    • If you work outside the home, pack your own lunch and any laptops or other work items you’ll need. 
    • Activities like grocery shopping (make a list!), filling the car with gasoline, and walking to the library to return a book. 
    • Chores like meal prep, housecleaning, laundry, and gardening. 
    • Working out or walking. 
    Make sure everything’s packed the night before so you can be on time for the school bus!

    The less you need to remember, the less likely you are to forget. That’s especially true when last-minute, unexpected demands arise, like your kids needing to finish a project by the next morning. It’s also more efficient to go down a checklist than to try to remember what you need to do. 

    Back to Healthy Habits

    It’s okay if your family slacked on your typical healthy habits. Meals may have been more like sporadic snacks. Screen time may have crept up. You may have missed a workout or three. It’s good to take a break occasionally! But when vacation is over, it’s time to get back to healthy habits for everyone. 

    Here’s a snapshot. 

    • A balanced breakfast, especially for kids. It’s hard to focus on learning when they’re hungry! Consider fresh fruit, reduced-fat dairy like yogurt or milk, a whole grain like oatmeal, whole-grain toast, or whole-grain cereal. Here are ideas. 
    • A healthy lunch with fiber and protein. Check our healthy lunch ideas! 
    • A family dinner with protein, whole grains, and vegetables. Don’t worry – here are plenty of options for nutritious, family-friendly, simple dinners. 
    • Physical activity. Kids can get back to active recess and sports at school with friends, or afterschool in organized activities. Parents can get back to regularly scheduled workouts. 
    Taco night is a kid-friendly, parent-friendly, nutritious option.

    If screen time crept up, it’s a good time to dial it back. Kids can keep themselves busy with homework, afterschool activities, and reading at home. If you do let them use devices, set strict rules on what they’re allowed to do or watch, and for how long. Then stick to the boundaries you set!

    Ongoing Support for Kids When Returning to School

    Keep in mind that while as a parent, you may find school to be a blessing, kids may not feel like going back. Even kids who love school and do well in it may find it stressful or boring. Or, they may just prefer to be at home with you – not realizing that “vacationing you” has time to play with them, while “working” you may not. 

    Do your best to “be there” for your kids. Talk them through any fears or anxieties they have. Validate their feelings, but reassure them. If it helps, talk about the things they’re looking forward to in school, whether it’s a daily occurrence like playing kickball at recess, or something coming up like a field trip or class party. You might also find it helpful to talk about your plans for next weekend or an upcoming holiday so that kids have something to focus on besides school. 

    Remind kids about fun things at school, like games with friends.

    The transition is an ongoing process, so be prepared to work through it for days or weeks. If you see any concerning signs, talk to your children’s teacher or pediatrician for advice. 

  • How I Get My Son to Eat a Variety of Foods – Try These Top Tips with Your Picky Eater

    How I Get My Son to Eat a Variety of Foods – Try These Top Tips with Your Picky Eater

    Are any of your kids picky eaters? If you’re a parent of a picky eater, you’re not alone. About 1 in 5 kids in elementary school are picky eaters. But take heart. Picky eating can be frustrating, but it’s not likely to become a health crisis. Plus, there are things you can do to help your child overcome picky eating. 

    Here’s how I try to get my son, age 8, to eat a variety of foods for a balanced diet while I stay calm. As a nutritionist and single parent, here’s what I use. These tips, backed by expert recommendations and experience.

    Spoiler alert: it’s probably going to turn out just fine. 

    Most important is to keep eating times lighthearted and enjoyable.

    Tip: Have Healthy Foods Nearby

    I’ve seen countless parents tell me their children are picky eaters, but I also see them offering their kids junk food. Once I went with my son to his friend’s house for a playdate. The child had been labeled a “picky eater.” There was a tidy kitchen, with a pizza box on the counter. That afternoon, the boys ate from that pizza box, and served themselves ice cream and soda from the freezer and fridge. 

    I wonder whether the child would be more likely to eat other foods if other foods were more available and appealing than the pizza, soda, and ice cream at that house. What if there were grape tomatoes on the counter, cheese sticks and grapes in the fridge, and peanuts in the pantry? Might the child be more prone to eating those nutritious foods? 

    Tip: Prioritize Hunger at Meals

    I know several children who always seem to be eating when I see them. Their parents tell me that they’re fussy eaters and don’t eat foods like vegetables, fruit, and dairy products. 

    Kids will eat when they’re hungry. They may appear to be bottomless pits when it comes to snacking, but if they eat too many snacks, their appetite can disappear at mealtimes. That leaves them low on nutrients and variety if their typical snack foods are crackers, chips, and granola bars. 

    Try to offer more nutritious snacks first, like berries, tangerines, baby carrots, and unsweetened brown rice cakes. If they’re that hungry, they’ll eat. If they’re not that hungry, there’s no need to encourage snacking on sugary or fatty snack foods. 

    Tip: Keep Portions Small

    I’ve made the mistake of serving my son oversized portions. He ends up eating none of what I served him, even if it is something he loves. It turns out that he’s intimidated. 

    Offer small portions of a variety of nutritious foods and see what kids choose!

    Keep portions small so kids feel that they are manageable. Even if the plate looks underfull to you, it can look more welcoming for kids. Plus, you can always serve more if they want. 

    Tip: Introduce New Foods Gradually

    Keeping portions small is even more important when introducing new foods. Start with an almost imperceptibly small amount. For example, if your child only likes plain white pasta, try mixing in a teaspoon of tomato sauce before serving it. It will be almost impossible to taste. Gradually increase the amount over weeks.

    Sticking with the pasta example, you can expand a kid’s love for plain pasta to a tolerance for whole grains. Swap about an eighth of their pasta for whole-wheat pasta. Over the course of weeks, gradually increase this amount. 

    The point here is for the child to realize that she can tolerate, and maybe even enjoy, the new food. 

    Tip: Let Your Kids Take Charge

    Many kids love having control. It makes sense, since adults make most of the decisions that affect their lives, from when to get up, what clothes are available to them, what they do during the day, and what they can watch on a screen. Give children control of something fun, personal, and important – their food!

    Let your kids bring a friend to the meal to help them eat a variety of foods.

    The sky isn’t quite the limit (I’m not suggesting that you let them choose an ice cream sundae for dinner with cupcakes for dessert). Try letting your kids work within guidelines that you set. For example, tell them they can choose a vegetable, a fruit, a grain, and a protein for dinner, and see what they come up with. 

    Here are some examples: 

    • Whole-grain pasta with marinara sauce, a yogurt, and strawberries
    • A whole-grain bagel with peanut butter, raisins, and a V8. 
    • Plain Cheerios with milk, a banana, and a squeeze pack of fruit-veggie mix. 

    A variation is to let your children choose from a menu that you provide. The more control they have, the more they are likely to eat what they choose. 

    Tip: Model How You Want Them to Eat

    When you are eating from the pizza box on the counter, what do you think your kids will want? Probably pizza, not a salad. When you go out for Chinese food, are you ordering fried rice, chow mein noodles, and sweet and sour chicken? Or are you opting for chicken with broccoli, mixed vegetable stir fry, and brown rice?

    Modeling may be the most important tool we have as parents. It may also be the toughest, since it’s easier to live by, “Do as I say, not as I do.” It may also be slow to get results from modeling. But it’s likely to lead to the longest-lasting effects. 

    When kids see us eating healthy, kids learn that the people they respect the most – their parents – eat healthy. They learn how to eat healthy, since they see us grocery shopping and preparing foods. They learn what healthy is, since they see us do it. And they learn that healthy is normal. 

    Do your best to eat a variety of foods, include healthy options at each meal, and try new things. Don’t be afraid to let your kids know if you tried something and hated it. They’ll respect you for trying it, and they’ll know it’s okay to dislike something. 

    Tip: Be Calm

    Kids and dogs have a lot in common. For example, they know when we’re nervous. Don’t let your kids know how badly you want them to eat more or eat a wider variety of foods. They’ll make sure to hold out for junk food instead of caving into whatever healthy food you’re offering. Stay matter of fact, and if they choose to skip a meal, let it go. Unless their doctor is concerned, your kids are probably fine. 

    If you’re worried, a daily multivitamin and mineral supplement can provide micronutrients like iron, calcium, B vitamins, and more. Ask your pediatrician if you think your children should have one. 

    How do you get your children to eat a wider variety of nutritious foods?

  • Why This Clear Plastic Raincoat Is My New Go-To for Rainy Runs — and the Rest of the Day

    Why This Clear Plastic Raincoat Is My New Go-To for Rainy Runs — and the Rest of the Day

    I’ve never liked rain, but read about why I don’t have to dread rainy runs and walks anymore!

    Kids may not even notice it’s raining, but I do!

    I got a raincoat! Speaking of those small purchases that make a world of difference in your life, this is one of them. I’d never had a raincoat that I liked before now. This new Clear Plastic Raincoat is making all the difference in my attitude towards, and experience during, rainy days. 

    Why I’m Outside on Rainy Days

    I’ve mentioned before that I run even if it’s raining (check out my personal running FAQs if you haven’t already!), and that I don’t have a car (read about how I get around here!). That means I can be outside and get very wet on rainy days. 

    Thankfully, it doesn’t rain much here. I might run in the rain about 10 times a year. Aside from picking up my son from school, I can usually stay inside the rest of the time it’s raining. However, for those times when I do have to run or go outside in the rain, I get wet. I don’t mind it that much, but when I am wet for too long, I get cold, and that makes it hard to run. 

    (In case you’re wondering why I don’t just stay inside on rainy days, I don’t like being inside all day. I feel trapped. I have trouble thinking. Luckily, I’m able to walk in our building’s underground and underused parking lot and stay dry). 

    Bulky Raincoats, Lightweight Ponchos, and Running Jackets Didn’t Work for Me

    It took me years to settle on this plastic raincoat. For almost two decades, I didn’t wear rain gear while running in the rain.  I probably didn’t care much as a middle school and high school student. By college and graduate school, I was in a place with a true winter, and was probably so happy to be running in summer rain instead of winter snow that I didn’t bother worrying about it. 

    A classic rain jacket never did the trick for me. It was too bulky.

    That changed when I came home (to a warm place!) after graduate school. To stay drier, I tried running jackets that were described as waterproof. They weren’t, but I tried for years. 

    Then I started wearing plastic ponchos from dollar stores. They were pretty effective, but had some serious flaws. They are intended to be disposable, meaning they tear easily when putting them on and taking them off. They are loud. They act like a parachute because they’re so big and floppy. And, you can’t adjust them if something goes wrong. The rain just comes in. 

    For the rest of the day, a poncho works, but it has the same problems. It’s hard to manipulate. It’s awkward. And, it doesn’t dry fast, so if you come in from one run or walk and it’s wet, it’s nearly impossible to put it back on within a few hours.

    A bulky raincoat is good for walking around, but it’s a bit of a nuisance. The thought of having to put it on makes me not want to go outside. 

    I needed a solution for running and walking, and for easy use throughout the day. The plastic raincoat was it. 

    Great Features of My Plastic Raincoat 

    Here are some features of my raincoat, which I purchased for under $15.

    • It has a detachable hood, which I appreciate because I don’t like running with a hood. I wear a cap or visor to keep rain off of my glasses.
    • I got a medium size because the reviews said to order a size up. That was appropriate for me, and I can wear my normal clothes underneath it.
    • It has nice clear plastic pockets in the front.
    • The sleeves snap at the wrists for good fit and better ability to keep long sleeves dry underneath. 

    It’s super light weight so it doesn’t bother me at all. 

    Keep trying until you find rain gear that works for you. It’s worth it!

    Here are more advantages 

    • The raincoat is easy to put on and take off, even when wet
    • It dries quickly
    • It lets me adjust a bag or shoes without disrupting my whole run or walk
    • It is comfortable and doesn’t flop, drag, or make much noise when I run
    • The sleeves are longer and more protective than in a poncho, so my clothes underneath stay dry even if the rain is heavy.

    Comparison of a Plastic Raincoat, Plastic Poncho, and Heavy-Duty Rain Coat

    Comparison: Plastic Raincoat vs. Plastic Poncho vs. Heavy-Duty Rain Coat
    Feature Plastic Raincoat (clear shell) Plastic Poncho Heavy-Duty Rain Coat
    Waterproofness High — full waterproof shell that keeps most rain out. Variable — lightweight but often gaps at sleeves/neck allow water in. Very high — purpose-built with sealed seams and durable membranes.
    Ease of put on / take off Easy — conventional coat shape makes dressing and undressing simple, even when wet. Can be awkward once wet — large loose shape is harder to manage on/off. Moderate — engineered closures, but heavier and bulkier to remove/store.
    Packability Very good — lightweight and folds compactly for a bag or pocket. Excellent — typically folds very small (thin plastic). Poor to moderate — bulkier; may compress into a stuff-sack but takes room.
    Breathability Poor to moderate — non-breathable plastic can trap heat and moisture inside. Poor — thin plastic traps heat and can lead to clamminess. Good — often uses breathable membranes (Gore-Tex, etc.) and vents.
    Mobility / running Good — fitted shape and sleeve design allow freedom of movement; less flapping. Poor — flaps and billows; can catch wind and impede movement when running. Good — designed for activity; articulated cut and secure closures help movement.
    Durability Moderate — thicker EVA-style plastic holds up better than disposable options. Low — very thin, intended short-term use; tears easily. High — built for repeated long-term use in harsh conditions.
    Maintenance / cleaning Easy — wipes clean, air dry quickly. Very easy — wipe or toss when done; not designed for long-term reuse. Moderate — machine wash / technical care instructions may apply.
    Hood security Good — drawstrings, fitted hood stays put (improves with a cap underneath). Poor — hood often loose and can blow back; minimal structure. Very good — structured hoods with adjustable brims and seals.
    Sleeve length / coverage Longer sleeves provide real arm coverage and better protection. Often shorter or open at sides — less reliable sleeve protection. Excellent — tailored sleeves with cuff closures to seal out water.
    Style / visibility Clear option lets your outfit show through; simple aesthetic. Utility-focused; usually inexpensive-looking. Range from technical to stylish — many color and cut options.
    Cost Low to moderate — affordable and reusable (under $40 typical). Very low — cheapest single-use option. High — investment piece (technical materials drive price up).
    Best use case Everyday commuting, walking, errands, and rainy runs where packability matters. Emergency cover, one-off events, or when cost/space are the main concern. Outdoor work, serious hiking, prolonged wet-weather use, or cold/windy conditions.

  • Stress-Free Ways to Get Your Kids to Eat Whole Grains at Dinner

    We’ve already covered why whole grains matter, and about kids falling short of recommendations for whole grain consumption. The last couple of blog posts covered stress-free ideas for whole grains at breakfast and lunch to help close that gap. Now let’s talk about dinner. No matter how tired you are or how picky your kids may be, whole grains can fit into family-friendly meals without much effort. From pasta and tacos to burgers and soup, here are stress-free dinners with whole grains. They also have fiber and protein. 

    1. Whole-Grain Burger

    Whole-grain burger buns are easy to come by, and are often available in store brands. Toast them slightly for a better taste and texture. If your kids like something creamy on them, spread a thin layer of pureed ripe avocado or light trans fat-free margarine spread. Try a lean ground turkey patty, a veggie burger patty, or a black bean burger patty. If your kids won’t go for a non-beef patty, at least serve 93% lean ground beef to reduce saturated fat. 

    450 calories, 8 grams of fiber, 28 grams of protein

    What’s in it: 4 ounces of lean ground turkey, whole-grain bun, 1 cup of vegetables roasted with 2 teaspoons of olive oil, and fruit with a sprinkle of nuts or seeds

    Pro Tip: Serve the burger with a fun finger food like baked zucchini or carrot sticks with olive oil and salt to taste, or baked kale chips. Let them dip their vegetables into ketchup. 

    2. Mac and Cheese

    Whole-grain pasta is one of the whole-grain alternatives that’s most palatable compared to refined grains. Keep mac and cheese as a comfort food, but turn it into a healthy meal at the same time by using whole-wheat elbows, rotini, or penne instead of white pasta. 

    400 calories, 7 grams of fiber, 18 grams of protein

    What’s in it: Per serving, 1 cup of cooked pasta, ½ cup of cheese sauce made with low-fat cheese, skim milk, and pureed butternut squash, plus chopped broccoli florets, and fruit.

    Pro Tip: Let kids choose their favorite shape of pasta. If they prefer, swap cheese sauce for marinara sauce and parmesan cheese. They’ll still get vegetables, protein, and calcium. For a fun crunch on top, bake the mac and cheese like a casserole and add whole-grain breadcrumbs. 

    3. Taco Night

    Tacos can be a family favorite because they’re easy to make and fun to eat. Serve lean ground turkey plain or with Mexican seasoning. Offer whole-grain corn shells or tortillas, or whole-wheat flour tortillas. Side and toppings like beams, avocado, and grilled vegetables can round out the meal. 

    Serve ground turkey, chicken, or beans for your tacos. Add sweetness with corn or mango.

    500 calories, 10 grams of fiber, 26 grams of protein

    What’s in it: 2 whole-grain corn shells, 3 ounces of lean ground turkey, 1 ounce of shredded cheese, side of ½ cup beans, salsa, slices of avocado, grilled onions and peppers

    Pro Tip: Serve it as a make-your-own taco bar so kids feel like they have a choice in what they eat. Require them to choose one item from each group to make sure they get their vegetables. Options like homemade salsa with fresh or canned tomatoes, grilled vegetables, and cauliflower rice can be good choices for kids and parents.

    4. Stuffed Zucchini Boats

    Zucchini is popular among kids. It’s a vegetable that is soft and without strong flavors. Halve zucchini, cook them, hollow them out, and make a tasty filling with the zucchini flesh, tomato sauce, parmesan or mozzarella cheese, and your choice of cooked whole grain like brown rice, whole-wheat pasta, barley, or quinoa. Bake until the cheese is melted. 

    400 calories, 6 grams of fiber, 16 grams of protein

    What’s in it: Per person, serve 1 small zucchini (2 halves), ½ cup of cooked whole grain or ¼ cup of breadcrumbs, marinara sauce, and 1-2 ounces of cheese. 

    Pro Tip: Whole-wheat breadcrumbs are another good choice for a whole grain. Mix them into the filling along with Italian herbs. For a crunchy topping, add a few sunflower seeds or sliced almonds on top.

    5. Savory Zucchini Pancakes

    Pancakes for dinner feel like a treat because they’re surprising. Kids can also enjoy the contradiction of breakfast for dinner in the form of savory pancakes. Like the above recipe, this dinner recipe also takes advantage of kids liking zucchini. Add grated onion if your kids want. 

    Crispy zucchini pancakes for dinner can be a great way to get kids to eat vegetables and whole grains.

    380 calories, 6 grams of fiber, 14 grams of protein

    What’s in it: For two servings, ½ cup whole-wheat flour, 1 cup grated zucchini, ¼ cup parmesan or mozzarella cheese, 2 eggs, olive oil for frying. Serve with a side of fresh fruit and ½ ounce of nuts or 1 tablespoon of peanut butter. 

    Pro Tip: Pat the zucchini very dry to get pancakes with a better texture. For a different flavor, experiment with different kinds of cheese like cheddar or feta. 

    6. Sweet Pumpkin Pancakes

    If your kids love breakfast for dinner, try pumpkin pancakes as a contrast to savory zucchini pancakes. The whole grains come from oats. Use whole-wheat flour instead of white for extra whole grains and a heartier texture. Eggs add protein. 

    460 calories, 8 grams of fiber, 16 grams of protein

    What’s in it: For 4 servings, soak 1 cup of oats in 1 cup of warm milk. In another bowl, blend 1 cup of whole-grain or white flour, 2-3 teaspoons of baking powder, 1 teaspoon of cinnamon, 2 tablespoons of sugar, and ½ teaspoon of salt. In a small bowl, beat together 3 eggs and 1 cup of pumpkin puree. Mix everything together, adding 1-1 ½ cups of milk to thin the batter. Beat briefly, then cook on a girdle on each side. Serve with 1 tablespoon of peanut butter and a small apple, sliced.

    Pro Tip: Try serving the pancakes with different toppings like sliced banana, cooked berries, yogurt, or cottage cheese. For a treat, cook mini chocolate chips with the pancakes. 

    7. Chicken Noodle Soup

    Homemade chicken noodle soup is easier than you may think, and kids enjoy it. Use whole-grain spaghetti for noodles, keeping them intact if your kids love to play with them. You can make a big batch to refrigerate or store for later.

     

    A hearty bowl of chicken noodle soup can be a balanced meal. Top with cheese for extra calcium.

    350 calories, 7 grams of fiber, 17 grams of protein

    What’s in it: For four servings, include 4 cups of low-sodium broth, 4 ounces of whole-wheat pasta, 4 cups of vegetables like zucchini, carrots, onions, and green peas, and 2 cups of cooked skinless chicken, diced or shredded. Serve with whole-grain crackers on the side or on top.

    Pro Tip: Take shortcuts however you can! Use any leftovers like cooked whole-grain pasta, or swap brown rice if that’s what’s in your fridge. Fresh or frozen vegetables both work fine. Use leftover cooked chicken, or make it with leftover rotisserie chicken. It’s also a great post-Thanksgiving soup for turkey. 

    How do you add whole grains to dinner or any other meal or snack?

  • 10 Stress-Free Ways to Get Your Kids to Eat Whole Grains at Breakfast

    10 Stress-Free Ways to Get Your Kids to Eat Whole Grains at Breakfast

    We talked recently about kids falling short of recommendations for whole grain consumption even though whole grains are so healthy. Now it’s time to look at ways to increase whole grain consumption without adding stress to your life. It’s actually not hard! 

    Whole grains are easy to find and relatively affordable. You can often use them in place of your regular refined grains, and you can usually prepare them just like you would normally prepare a refined grain. Best of all for parents is that they often taste just like refined grains. 

    Let’s start with breakfast. Here are 10 ways to add whole grains to your children’s breakfast routines without stress. Each suggestion has about 350-400 calories, 5-10 grams of fiber, 15 or more grams of protein, and a tip for making it even more family-friendly.

    Stay tuned for the next blog, in which we’ll have 10 ways to add whole grains to lunch and dinner. Good news: you may find yourself eating more whole grains, too. 

    1. Peanut Butter and “Jelly” Oatmeal

    Oatmeal is easy to make and a great go-to for a healthy breakfast. Use rolled oats or instant oats. For an easier clean-up compared to cooking oatmeal in a pan, pour boiling water in a bowl over the oats, let them sit, and then serve. 

    400 calories, 6 grams of fiber, 16 grams of protein

    What’s in it: ½ cup of dry rolled oats, ¾ cup of milk, 1 tablespoon of peanut butter, ½-¾ cup of sliced strawberries or grapes

    Pro Tip: For more of a “jelly-like” experience, cook fruit before stirring it in. Try stewed chopped pear, diced apples stewed with cinnamon, or strawberries or blueberries cooked into a sauce.

    2. Colorful Overnight Oats

    Overnight oats are even quicker than regular oatmeal. Oatmeal softens overnight for a perfectly delicious morning breakfast. Layer the ingredients in single-serving bowls, and refrigerate the oatmeal until the morning. For breakfast on-the-go for grown-ups, make your own overnight oats in a container with a leakproof lid. Grab and go in the morning on the way to school drop-off and work!

    400 calories, 8 grams of fiber, 18 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: ½ cup of dry rolled oats, ½ cup of Greek yogurt, ¼ cup of skim milk, ½ ounce of nuts like chopped walnuts, sliced almonds, or chopped peanuts, ½ cup of berries

    Pro Tip: Use colorful fruit like strawberries, blueberries, kiwi slices, and peach or mango slices for a kid-friendly look. 

    Cottage cheese or yogurt, whole-grain oats or cereal, and any type of fruit can make a beautiful and nutritious breakfast.

    3. Whole-Grain Waffles

    Take advantage of ready-made foods and your freezer to improve your children’s nutrition at breakfast. Whole-grain waffles are fun for kids, and nearly effortless for parents. For a finger food, serve the yogurt separately in a bowl, slice the waffles into strips, and let your kids dip their waffle sticks into the yogurt.

    400 calories, 7 grams of fiber, 19 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: 2 whole-grain waffles, ¾ cup of plain or low-sugar vanilla Greek yogurt, and 1 sliced banana or ¾ cup of any fruit like peach slices

    Pro Tip: Change the flavor profile by skipping the yogurt, and instead toasting 1-2 ounces of low-fat shredded cheddar cheese on the waffles. It’ll still be high in protein. 

    Waffles are easy, delicious, and potentially healthy! Add fruit and yogurt or peanut butter for a nutritious breakfast.

    4. Egg and Cheese English Muffins

    Choose whole-grain, high-fiber, or whole-grain multigrain English muffins. Another option is a whole-grain bagel or mini bagel, or even whole-wheat toast. Serve it cold or hot from the toaster oven. You can also make batches and freeze them for instant breakfasts when you need them.

    350 calories, 5 grams of fiber, 20 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: A whole-grain English muffin, 1-2 slices of low-fat American cheese, 1 cooked egg

    Pro Tip: Add a meatless breakfast sausage for extra protein and fiber. For a more fast food-like sandwich, offer your kids ketchup – but if your kids aren’t the neatest of eaters, consider saving ketchup for weekends or other days when there’s more time to clean up. 

    5. Whole-Grain Breakfast Quesadilla

    A whole-grain breakfast quesadilla is even better than a regular quesadilla because of hearty whole grains and the addition of an egg. Choose low-fat cheese for less saturated fat and more protein.

    400 calories, 5 grams of fiber, 20 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: 2 soft taco-sized tortillas, 2 ounces of shredded low-fat jack or cheddar cheese, and 1 scrambled egg. 

    Pro Tip: For healthy fats and creaminess, spread the tortilla with a layer of mashed ripe avocado before toasting it. Or, cut the quesadilla into strips or wedges, and let your kids dip them into ketchup, salsa, or guacamole. 

    6. Cottage Cheese with Peanut Butter Toast and Fruit

    Boring? No! Many kids love simple foods that are served separately. Plate the items nicely, or put them in small bowls for kids to feel like the components are easier to eat. Swap yogurt for cottage cheese if your kids prefer. 

    380 calories, 6 grams of fiber, 20 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: ½ cup of low-fat cottage cheese, 1 slice of whole-grain toast, 1 tablespoon of peanut butter, 1 banana or other fruit

    Pro Tip: Get your children to buy into it by letting them choose toppings like blueberries, sunflower seeds, or mini chocolate chips.

    7. Whole-Grain Bagel with Cream Cheese and Turkey

    This simple sandwich is easy and well-loved. Use low-fat cream cheese and nitrate-free turkey slices. Serve the bagel thin with grapes or other fruit. 

    400 calories, 5 grams of fiber, 14 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: 1 whole-wheat bagel, 2 tablespoons of low-fat cream cheese, 1 ounce of turkey breast, and 1 cup of grapes

    Pro Tip: Let kids who are old enough press the sandwich with a waffle iron or panini maker. For a meltier sandwich, use sliced cheese instead of cream cheese.

    8. Quinoa Breakfast Bowl 

    Quinoa may sound grown-up, but kids can enjoy it, too. Add quinoa, egg, sliced almonds, and fruit to the bowl. 

    400 calories, 7 grams of fiber, 14 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: 1 cooked egg, ½ ounce sliced almonds, ¾ cup cooked quinoa, ½ cup fresh fruit

    Pro Tip: If they’re not crazy about trying quinoa, give kids whole-wheat pasta or cooked oatmeal instead. They’ll still get whole-grain goodness, and you can enjoy a low-stress meal. Serve a plant-based version for dinner by swapping the egg for ½ cup of black beans. For another high-protein option, add 3 ounces of cooked cubed chicken breast or ground turkey.

    9. Oatmeal Pancake Breakfast

    Save this breakfast for a relaxed weekend, or make extra pancakes to refrigerate or freeze. Reheat them when you need them. Keep the pancakes plain, or add sliced banana when cooking. Your kids can also top them with fun items like mini chocolate chips or sprinkles. 

    400 calories, 6 grams of fiber, 15 grams of protein 

    What’s in it: For 4 servings of pancakes, soak ½ cup of oatmeal in ½ cup of warm milk, then mix it with 2 beaten eggs, ½ cup of whole-grain flour, 2 teaspoons of baking powder, ½ teaspoon of salt, and another ½ cup of milk. Serve pancakes with an egg or cottage cheese plus fresh fruit. 

    Pro Tip: For an on-the-go breakfast or an alternative to a breakfast platter, make sandwiches using pancakes instead of bread. Add peanut butter, cheese, or low-fat cream cheese. 

    10. Cereal, Banana, and Milk

    400 calories, grams of fiber, grams of protein 

    A healthy breakfast with whole grains can be really simple. Pour cereal into a bowl. Add a sliced banana. Pour milk over it. Serve. Choose a cereal that says, “100% whole grains” on the box. Look for a version with less than 4 grams of sugar per serving. Low-sugar, high-protein whole-grain granola or cereal can be a good choice, too. Choose skim milk or unsweetened soy milk to add protein; almond milk doesn’t have much.

    What’s in it: 1 ½ ounces of whole-grain, low-sugar cereal (like 1 ½ cups of plain Oat O’s, ¾ cup of shredded wheat bites, or ¾-1 cup of bran flakes), 1 sliced banana, 1 cup of skim milk

    Pro Tip: Instead of milk, try it with ½ cup of low-fat cottage cheese or 1 cup of plain non-fat yogurt.

    How do you get your children to start the day with a whole grain? Share your tips, and stay tuned for lunch and dinner whole-grain tips!

  • Should You Use a Continuous Glucose Monitor Even If You Don’t Have Diabetes?

    WIth continuous glucose monitoring (CGM), you can track your blood sugar (blood glucose) all the time. It lets you see how your body responds to things like food, exercise, sleep, stress, and medications. It may reveal patterns that you can’t detect with occasional finger pricks or lab tests. 

    People with type 1 or type 2 diabetes are most likely to use CGM, but a continuous monitor can provide information to other people like those with prediabetes or people who are interested in links between blood sugar and mood, food, or other factors. Here’s what to know about CGM and how to take advantage of it if you’re trying to prevent diabetes or manage blood sugar. 

    What is Continuous Glucose Monitoring?

    Continuous glucose monitoring is another way to monitor blood sugar. It gives more information than traditional methods like fingerstick testing, which you can only do a few times a day. In contrast, a continuous glucose monitor is placed under your skin. It measures your blood sugar every 1-5 minutes, or around 300 times daily, without pricking your fingers. In contrast, people with diabetes who use traditional finger pricks to test blood sugar may need to test up to 10 times a day.

    Better glucose monitoring can be life-saving with diabetes, but what if you don’t have diabetes?

    Who Uses CGM and Why?

    Traditionally, people with type 1 diabetes use CGM to improve blood sugar control. People with type 2 diabetes, especially if you’re on insulin, are also likely to use CGM. More people are using CGM now. People with prediabetes and people who like tracking their measurements are also increasingly interested in CGM. 

    A CGM can help you with these.

    • Supporting healthy behavior changes by showing you immediate consequences of your choices like what you eat and how much you sleep
    • Creating your daily blood sugar management plan
    • Reducing the risk of severe (Level 2) hypoglycemia, which can be scary and dangerous
    • Reducing anxiety around managing blood sugar

    What You Can Learn from Using a CGM

    A CGM can provide a wealth of information.

    • A blood sugar reading every few minutes throughout the day and night
    • Alerts for high blood sugar and low blood sugar when you are out of range, which can be life-saving
    • Analysis like graphs showing your blood sugar over time
    • Trend arrows showing if your blood sugar is rising, falling, or steady at that moment, so you can make better decisions on whether and what to eat, whether or how much to exercise, and other behaviors

    With so much information, you can also be more likely to learn how specific factors may affect blood sugar. Here are some examples.

    • How specific foods may affect blood sugar differently, such as crackers versus nuts
    • Effects of portion sizes and combinations, such as a plate of pasta versus a half-plate of pasta and a half-plate of salad
    • Role of timing, such as breakfast versus a late-night snack
    • Patterns during and after exercise
    • How different activities affect blood sugar, such as light walks throughout the day versus resistance training versus high-intensity interval workouts
    • How blood sugar changes during stress, sleep deprivation, and illness

    Insurance and Self-Pay: Cost of CGM

    Insurance is likely to pay for a continuous glucose monitor if you have type 1 diabetes or you have type 2 diabetes and you are on insulin. You may also qualify if you have type 2 diabetes and are not on insulin, especially if you have low blood sugar, or hypoglycemia, frequently. Coverage usually includes the CGM and cost of the disposable sensors they use, which usually last 1-2 weeks. 

    Insurance isn’t likely to pay for CGM if you don’t have diabetes, since a CGM is a medical device for diabetes management. Self-pay options may cost about $100 per sensor and $400 for a reader or transmitter. If you’re interested, your healthcare provider may be able to help you find an option to use for a couple of weeks so you can learn how different foods, activities, and other patterns affect blood sugar. 

    Realistic Expectations and Caveats of CGM

    A CGM isn’t perfect. There’s a time delay between when the measurement is taken and when you see the value of the measurement, which means you’re seeing a value that’s a few seconds behind. It’s also important to remember that you still may need to do finger pricks when you have a CGM. A finger prick may be necessary to help calibrate the sensor or confirm a reading. 

    You may still need finger pricks with a CGM
    How does spaghetti affect blood sugar? A CGM can give insights!

    Using a CGM when you don’t have diabetes or prediabetes can be interesting, but it can also potentially lead to excessive focus on each lifestyle choice you make. Micromanaging or becoming obsessive about blood sugar can be unhealthy if it causes stress or treatment fatigue, especially without substantial physical benefits. 

    If you choose to use a CGM, be sure to do so under the supervision of a qualified healthcare professional. You may see a lot of numbers, graphs, and other information. It’s best to check with a provider to make sure you understand what the information is telling you, and what you might want to do about it. Never make changes to your medication or diabetes care plan without involving a qualified healthcare professional. 

    If you’re thinking about trying a CGM, identify why you want to. What are you hoping to get out of it? Are you willing to find out about insurance or the out-of-pocket costs? Have you thought about the risks and benefits? If you’re still interested, talk to your provider and see if it may be right for you!

  • Why Carbohydrates Are Not the Enemy in Diabetes Management – And What the Exchange List Is

    With diabetes, you may have heard conflicting advice about carbohydrates. Some sources suggest cutting them out completely, while others say carbohydrates are good. The best approach may be somewhere in between. The amount of carbohydrates you can and should safely eat depends on your preferences, which types of carbohydrates and other foods you choose, and what your healthcare provider recommends. 

    For most people with diabetes, a low to moderate amount of carbohydrates, eaten consistently, can be the best approach as long as you choose nutritious sources. Understanding how carbohydrates affect blood sugar, the role of insulin in diabetes, and how to manage carbohydrate intake at each meal can help you enjoy a balanced diet without spiking your glucose levels. Keep reading for more on how your body handles carbohydrates and the relationship to blood sugar and diabetes, why carbohydrates don’t have to be the enemy, and practical strategies for consistent carbohydrate intake using carbohydrate exchanges.

    What Happens in Your Body When You Eat Carbohydrates with Diabetes

    Carbohydrates are your body’s main source of glucose, which provides energy for your brain, muscles, and organs. When you eat carbs, your digestive system breaks them down into glucose, which enters your bloodstream.

    For people without diabetes, the pancreas releases insulin to move glucose into cells, keeping blood sugar stable. In type 1 diabetes, the pancreas don’t produce insulin.. Type 2 diabetes is far more common, including 90-95% of cases of diabetes. Your body has insulin resistance, so it doesn’t respond properly to insulin. Some people with type 2 diabetes still make high levels of insulin, while more advanced cases have pancreatic exhaustion and don’t make much insulin anymore. In type 2 diabetes, there’s a relative shortage of insulin. 

    Blood sugar is higher than normal, including after eating. Blood sugar rises higher after meals containing carbohydrates. In general, the more carbohydrates you have, the higher your blood sugar levels may spike.

    Understanding this process is key to managing diabetes. Carbohydrates directly impact glucose levels, but with the right strategies, you can include them safely in your diet.

    Carbohydrates May Not Be the Enemy in Diabetes Management

    Carbohydrates often get blamed for high blood sugar, but they are essential for energy and overall health. The problem isn’t the carbs themselves. Trouble comes with oversized portions, low-quality sources of carbohydrates like sugary or highly processed foods, or eating carbohydrates without protein and fiber to balance the carbs. Skipping meals can also be problematic. 

    Cutting out carbs entirely can backfire for a few reasons. 

    • The liver may release stored glucose, increasing blood sugar. 
    • You may feel tired, irritable, or experience cravings as the result of low blood sugar.
    • Long-term adherence to a very low-carbohydrate diet is difficult.

    It’s more sustainable and often healthier to choose nutritious, high-fiber sources of carbohydrates, keep portions in check, and balance carbohydrate consumption with protein, fiber, and healthy fat consumption. Planning can help. 

    Types of Low-Carbohydrate Diets

    Low-carbohydrate diets come in several variations, ranging from moderate reduction to very low or ketogenic plans. Understanding the different approaches can help you decide what fits your lifestyle and diabetes management goals.

    Diet Type Daily Carbohydrate Intake % of Total Calories Notes
    Moderate low-carb 100–150 grams ~30–40% Reduces carbs moderately, sustainable for most people
    Low-carb 50–100 grams ~10–25% Can improve blood sugar control and promote short-term weight loss
    Very low-carb / Ketogenic <50 grams ~5–10% Often leads to ketosis; stricter, may be harder to maintain long-term

    These approaches differ in strictness and sustainability, and each can impact blood sugar, weight, and overall nutrient intake differently.

    Pros and Cons of Low- and High-Carbohydrate Diets

    Choosing a higher or lower carbohydrate intake has advantages and trade-offs, especially for people managing diabetes.

    Diet Type Pros Cons
    Low-Carb Diet
    • Can improve blood sugar control and reduce post-meal spikes
    • Supports short-term weight loss
    • Often higher in protein, which improves satiety
    • May include too much red meat, saturated fat, or TMAO, affecting heart health
    • Potential loss of whole grains, fiber, and micronutrients
    • Can be difficult to sustain long-term
    High-Carb Diet
    • Encourages fruits, vegetables, and whole grains
    • Supports fiber and micronutrient intake
    • More flexible and easier to follow socially
    • Blood sugar may rise more after meals if portions aren’t managed
    • Can contribute to weight gain if calorie intake is too high

    How Many Carbohydrates You Can Have per Meal with Diabetes

    Most diabetes guidelines suggest moderate, consistent carbohydrate intake.

    Meal Type Carbohydrate Range Notes
    Breakfast, Lunch, or Dinner 30–60 grams Adjust based on activity, medications, and blood sugar response
    Snacks 10–20 grams Pair with protein or healthy fat for better glucose control

    These are starting points. Your individual carbohydrate goals may differ depending on your health status and blood sugar patterns.

    What Consistent Carbohydrate Intake Means and Why It Works

    Eating similar amounts of carbohydrates at each meal—even if the foods vary—helps keep blood sugar stable. Consistent carbohydrate intake:

    • Prevents large spikes and crashes in glucose
    • Makes insulin or diabetes medications more predictable
    • Helps you recognize patterns and understand which meals work best for your blood sugar

    Supports balanced dinner options (45g carbs / 3 exchanges)

    1 cup cooked quinoa + grilled chicken + roasted vegetables

    1 medium baked sweet potato + salmon + side salad

    Supports snack options (15g carbs / 1 exchange)

    1 small apple + 1 tablespoon peanut butter

    6 whole-grain crackers + 1 slice cheese

    Consistency doesn’t mean eating the same foods every day—it means keeping carbohydrate amounts similar to help manage glucose.

    Carbohydrate Exchanges for Diabetes

    Carbohydrate exchanges simplify meal planning by helping you track grams of carbohydrate. One carb exchange equals 15 grams of carbohydrate.

    Food 1 Carb Exchange (15g carbohydrate)
    Bread 1 slice
    Cooked Rice or Pasta 1/3 cup
    Small Fruit 1 small apple or orange
    Milk 1 cup
    Beans 1/2 cup
    Oatmeal (cooked) 1/2 cup
    Yogurt (unsweetened) 2/3 cup
    Banana 1 small (about 6 inches)
    Sweet Potato (cooked) 1/2 cup

    If your goal is 45 grams of carbs per meal, that’s 3 exchanges. Using this system makes it easier to mix and match foods while staying within your target.

    Having diabetes doesn’t mean giving up carbohydrates. By understanding how carbs affect blood sugar, practicing consistent carbohydrate intake, and using carb exchanges, you can enjoy a balanced diet and maintain better glucose control.