Going back to school can be tough for families after a break. Winter break, for example, can be 2-3 weeks for many school children, and include holidays and other seasonal events. When kids are out of school, there’s less reason to follow a consistent routine, especially if parents are taking time off work. Sleep, eating, and activity patterns can be different or non-existent during break.
The return to school can feel scary if you’re worried about transitioning back to strict schedules, early mornings, and homework – but don’t worry. These tips can help you reset and ease the transition back to school and regular schedules.
Routines While Out of School: Looser But a Necessary Break
When there’s no school or work to create a schedule, it’s likely that you’ll ease out of your regular routine. Sleep times may shift, and meal times may be less regimented. Instead of sitting down to balanced meals, many families shift to more takeout, snacking, and holiday treats.

There’s nothing wrong with this for the short-term. For many busy parents, it’s necessary to take a break from what feels like planning every aspect of life, the way you might when there are work, homework, and extracurricular activities to keep straight. Some mental down time can let you recharge for the rest of the year.
But that can lead to a rude awakening when real life kicks back in!
A regular school day usually starts with a strict waking time followed by a busy morning. It may include packing lunches and homework, eating or packing breakfast, and some rushed discussions about afterschool pickup and activities. Later, there may be sports or other activities, dinner, and homework. A regular bedtime is essential for good health, since you’ll all be repeating the schedule tomorrow.
Getting Back into a Schedule – Including Sleep
Planning your schedule ahead of time lets you fit the important things into each day without as much effort. When you’re consistent, your mind and body are more prepared. You have energy when it’s time to wake up, you’re tired when it’s time to sleep, and you’re hungry at meal times.
Thankfully, when school starts back up, there are a lot of set times that you can work around as you’re getting back on schedule!
- The start of the school day
- The end of the school day
- Any extracurricular activities
- Any meetings you have, or a time you come home from work (or stop working)
Use these events to your advantage as you reset your schedule.
School starts early in the morning, so you’ll need to get up on time. It can be challenging if your family has shifted to a later schedule over the holidays, but gradually shifting back can help. Wake up and go to sleep a few minutes earlier each day until your body’s clock is back to being on “school” time.
It helps to re-establish regular meal times and physical activity schedules, too. Try to get back to your typical family eating patterns and times so that your body and mind can go back to predicting when meal times and sleep times will be.
Make a To-Do List to Relieve Stress on Parents
There’s a lot to do when school gets back in session, but you can use simple tools to make it easier on kids and parents. A simple to-do list or checklist can relieve the burden of trying to remember things. It can help you make sure everyone has what they need when leaving home in the mornings. It can also make your evening calmer.
Here’s what you might include on a daily checklist or to-do list.
- Pack backpacks, which might include lunches, water bottles, and homework.
- Check for gym clothes (older kids), instruments, sports equipment, or other items needed for extracurricular activities that day or the next day.
- If you work outside the home, pack your own lunch and any laptops or other work items you’ll need.
- Activities like grocery shopping (make a list!), filling the car with gasoline, and walking to the library to return a book.
- Chores like meal prep, housecleaning, laundry, and gardening.
- Working out or walking.

The less you need to remember, the less likely you are to forget. That’s especially true when last-minute, unexpected demands arise, like your kids needing to finish a project by the next morning. It’s also more efficient to go down a checklist than to try to remember what you need to do.
Back to Healthy Habits
It’s okay if your family slacked on your typical healthy habits. Meals may have been more like sporadic snacks. Screen time may have crept up. You may have missed a workout or three. It’s good to take a break occasionally! But when vacation is over, it’s time to get back to healthy habits for everyone.
Here’s a snapshot.
- A balanced breakfast, especially for kids. It’s hard to focus on learning when they’re hungry! Consider fresh fruit, reduced-fat dairy like yogurt or milk, a whole grain like oatmeal, whole-grain toast, or whole-grain cereal. Here are ideas.
- A healthy lunch with fiber and protein. Check our healthy lunch ideas!
- A family dinner with protein, whole grains, and vegetables. Don’t worry – here are plenty of options for nutritious, family-friendly, simple dinners.
- Physical activity. Kids can get back to active recess and sports at school with friends, or afterschool in organized activities. Parents can get back to regularly scheduled workouts.

If screen time crept up, it’s a good time to dial it back. Kids can keep themselves busy with homework, afterschool activities, and reading at home. If you do let them use devices, set strict rules on what they’re allowed to do or watch, and for how long. Then stick to the boundaries you set!
Ongoing Support for Kids When Returning to School
Keep in mind that while as a parent, you may find school to be a blessing, kids may not feel like going back. Even kids who love school and do well in it may find it stressful or boring. Or, they may just prefer to be at home with you – not realizing that “vacationing you” has time to play with them, while “working” you may not.
Do your best to “be there” for your kids. Talk them through any fears or anxieties they have. Validate their feelings, but reassure them. If it helps, talk about the things they’re looking forward to in school, whether it’s a daily occurrence like playing kickball at recess, or something coming up like a field trip or class party. You might also find it helpful to talk about your plans for next weekend or an upcoming holiday so that kids have something to focus on besides school.

The transition is an ongoing process, so be prepared to work through it for days or weeks. If you see any concerning signs, talk to your children’s teacher or pediatrician for advice.




























