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  • Gratitude for the People Who Help: The Village Behind Single Parenting

    Most parents will tell you that raising children is tough. I’m no different, though I was determined not to be one of the complainers. I was also determined not to play the “single parent” card. I still try not to play it too much, but the truth is that parenting is hard, and single parenting is harder. 

    Regardless, what is also true of parenting, and likely more so of single parenting, is that there are always people stepping in to help. There are so many ways to help, and people do. Neighbors, other parents, friends, and perfect strangers have always emerged to help. I am grateful.

    Is It Okay to Accept Help?

    My parents never accepted help when they were raising me and my sister. They didn’t think it was fair to ask anyone to watch us, except for an occasional paid babysitter. Maybe it was because they were from a different generation, or maybe it is because they were more competent parents than I am.

    I have no problem asking for, and accepting, help. In return, I give help when I can. It seems natural for everyone to do what they can; it makes everyone’s lives easier.  

    Other Parents Stepping In

    I’ll pick up another parent’s child and take them to the park when it works out, or I’m happy to wait at school for a few minutes if the parent is running late or needs to run inside to talk to the child’s teacher alone. In return, I’m happy to ask for help when it seems easy for another parent to give, and when I need it. We’re all in this together. 

    The Kindness of Strangers

    Since my son was young, I’ve noticed that it would be helpful for me to have four hands, three times as much patience, and twice as much strength as I do. One time when he was about three years old, we were walking into the library. He decided he didn’t want to go anymore, and let me know that by throwing a loud tantrum. 

    While he was screaming, I took him outside and tried to calm him down. As usual, I failed miserably. After a few minutes, a librarian came out with a smile and a bookmark. She tried to distract him by showing it to him and reading it to him. She didn’t have to, but that’s the kind of kind act that I’ve received from people since my son was born. 

    Libraries serve everyone, including parents.

    People are almost always ready to help. Homeowners may smile instead of yell when my son walks on their property. Other passengers boarding a bus may hold my bags while I load my son’s bike onto the front rack. A grocery store checkout clerk smiled and calmly offered to put my groceries back on the store shelves when we had to leave before checking out due to a tantrum. A boy’s father at the park pitched my son a few baseballs for his first batting experience. These all help. 

    Neighborly Advice and a Hug

    Evenings can feel lonely. They’re the time when I’m tired and my son’s tired. We’re both at our worst of the day. He can get upset over homework, brushing teeth, and my general existence. I can get upset over homework, brushing teeth, and not having finished my work. I can’t call my parents because they’re in bed already (they’re usually in a different time zone).

    Every so often, it gets physically scary in our condo unit. He may throw a tantrum or throw things. If it seems safe, I step outside. Every so often, I bump into one of our neighbors, a single parent whose son is in college now. She understands completely, and always takes the time to give me a hug, some encouragement, and some friendly words. Since she’s been in my shoes, she must know how much it means to me. 

    Help from Old Gym Friends

    I have several friends that are on my call list. I talked about my gym friends in a recent post. Some are parents; others aren’t. They’re all willing to pick up the phone and give advice or just listen. As I mentioned before, they’re among the most kind, accepting people I know. Though I haven’t asked for several years, I know that many of them would be willing to watch my son for me or go out with us if needed. 

    Any Help Line I Can Find

    When I’m desperate and just need to talk to a friendly person, I can call a free helpline. 988, the mental health crisis line, is available 24/7 Since I’m usually crying when I call, they’re at least helpful in getting me to calm down a bit. I appreciate that they answer the phone every time, and that I’ve never had to wait more than a couple minutes on hold.

    It can help just to talk to someone

    The drawback is that they themselves don’t offer much practical advice. They seem to be more of a service to direct you to other services. In my case, most of the referrals have been irrelevant (e.g., for abused children) or impractical (e.g., a private practice located 50 miles away from our home). Still, a kind, caring voice is welcome when I’m upset and feeling alone. 

    Big Brother Big Sister Program

    One volunteer who has given my son, and therefore me, hours and hours of kindness is his Big Brother. It’s a mentorship program in which the Big takes the Little (my son) on an outing once or twice a month. They can go to parks, out to eat, to museums, to local attractions, or anything else. My son and I have lucked out with his Big – he has a kind heart, he’s interested in everything, and he makes the outings so exciting for my son. 

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    A kind mentor can be a role model and trusted advisor

    For me, it’s something to look forward to. Those few hours of alone time on a weekend are precious and valuable. I can relax, let my guard down, take a walk, get work done, or do whatever else I want with that time. The anticipation of that time is wonderful, too. 

    As you can see, lots of people help without asking for anything in return. There’s no guilt-tripping. It’s just pure kindness. I am grateful. 

    Who helps you out? How do you give back?

  • Why Kids Need Nutritious Meals Today to Be Healthy Tomorrow — and How Busy Parents Can Make It Happen

    Why Kids Need Nutritious Meals Today to Be Healthy Tomorrow — and How Busy Parents Can Make It Happen

    Why not just order a pizza or heat up some TV dinners if they’re quicker and sure to taste good? After all, it’s possible you still have a long to-do list for the day. It may include managing afterschool meltdowns, monitoring homework, tidying your home, packing lunches, and finishing up your own work. 

    However, healthy eating is important for the whole family. Short-term, it improves energy and focus so your kids can do better in school and you can do better at work and parenting. Medium-term, it supports growth and development. Longer-term, it helps establish healthy habits that children can carry with them for life. With such high stakes, it’s worth it to develop your arsenal of healthy meals to make when you have no time or energy. 

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    Make family meals happy and healthy for long-term nutritious eating.

    Common Knowledge on Nutrition, Obesity, and Health in Adults

    Most people have some idea that healthy eating is good for adults. Overweight and obesity are risk factors for chronic conditions like diabetes, certain cancers, heart disease, and age-related cognitive decline. They’re also related to mental health disorders like depression and anxiety. 

    Weight is important, but other areas of nutrition matter, too. Compared to a low-quality diet, a high-quality diet can have benefits for mind and body. Here are just a few examples of dietary components that can benefit health.

    Healthy Food Health Benefits
    Whole grains (e.g., oats, brown rice, quinoa, whole-wheat bread) Lower risk of cardiovascular disease; improved blood sugar control and lower risk of type 2 diabetes; better weight management; improved gut health (fiber).
    Fruits & vegetables (e.g., berries, leafy greens, citrus, cruciferous veg) Reduced risk of heart disease and some cancers; improved blood pressure; antioxidant support for long-term health; better diet quality and satiety.
    Legumes (e.g., beans, lentils, chickpeas) Improved glycemic control and lower diabetes risk; improved cholesterol and heart health; plant protein for weight management and satiety.
    Lean proteins (e.g., skinless poultry, tofu, low-fat dairy, eggs) Supports healthy muscle mass and weight management; helps control appetite and blood sugar; contributes to bone health (dairy).
    Fatty fish (e.g., salmon, mackerel, sardines) Omega-3 fatty acids reduce cardiovascular disease risk and inflammation; may support brain health and improve lipid profiles.
    Nuts & seeds (e.g., almonds, walnuts, flaxseed, chia) Improve heart health and cholesterol; provide healthy fats and fiber for satiety and weight management; anti-inflammatory benefits.
    Healthy oils (e.g., extra virgin olive oil, avocado) Monounsaturated fats associated with lower CVD risk; improve lipid profiles and support weight-friendly, nutrient-dense cooking.
    Low-fat dairy & calcium-rich foods (e.g., yogurt, milk, fortified plant milks) Supports bone health and blood pressure regulation; fermented dairy (yogurt) supports gut microbiome and may aid weight control.
    High-fiber foods (e.g., vegetables, whole grains, legumes, fruit skins) Improves satiety and aids weight control; lowers LDL cholesterol; helps blood sugar regulation and bowel health.
    Hydration & minimally processed beverages (water, unsweetened tea) Supports concentration and school/work performance, healthy body weight (less sugary drinks), improved kidney function and overall hydration.

    And here are examples of negative dietary factors. 

    Less Healthy Food Health Risks / Concerns
    Sugary drinks (soda, energy drinks, sweetened coffee drinks, juice cocktails) Strongly linked to weight gain, obesity, type 2 diabetes, fatty liver disease, and dental problems.
    Processed meats (hot dogs, bacon, deli meats, sausage) Increased colorectal cancer risk (WHO Group 1 carcinogen), higher risk of heart disease and hypertension due to sodium and nitrates.
    Refined grains (white bread, pastries, most crackers, many cereals) Cause rapid blood sugar spikes, contribute to weight gain, higher diabetes and cardiovascular risk vs. whole grains.
    Fast food & fried foods (fries, fried chicken, burgers, breaded snacks) High in calories, unhealthy fats, sodium — associated with obesity, hypertension, and heart disease.
    High-sugar snacks & desserts (cookies, candy, donuts, ice cream) Contribute to insulin resistance, weight gain, high triglycerides, and inflammatory markers.
    Ultra-processed packaged foods (chips, instant noodles, frozen dinners) Typically high in sodium, refined carbs, additives — associated with increased overall mortality and chronic disease risk.
    High-sodium foods (canned soups, sauces, flavored rice mixes) Elevate blood pressure and strain the heart; long-term risk for stroke and kidney disease.
    Trans fats / hydrogenated oils (older baked goods, some margarine, deep-fried shelf-stable snacks) Raise LDL (bad cholesterol), lower HDL (good cholesterol), strongly linked to heart disease.

    But does it matter for children, who seem so vibrant, healthy, and invincible? Yes!

    Long and Short-Term Effects of Childhood Obesity 

    A good reason to prevent childhood obesity is that overweight and obese children are likely to become obese adults with the health risks that obesity brings. It can be hard to see that one’s children are obese. Even if parents recognize it, they may be tempted to say that it’s just baby fat, or a growth spurt, or pre-puberty.

    Support children’s well-being by giving them opportunities to be active every day.

    However, it’s best to talk to your child’s pediatrician if you’re concerned. 

    An article in Obesity Reviews gives this information comparing obese to non-obese children. 

    • Obese children are five times more likely to become obese adults.
    • Obese adolescents have an 80% chance of remaining obese as adults.

    Regardless of obesity adulthood, children who are obese maintain a higher risk of chronic conditions like diabetes in adulthood. 

    Nutrition and School Achievement

    Besides having healthy and happy children, most parents hope for their children to enjoy school and to do well in school. Healthy diet patterns can help with these goals. A review article in Healthcare (Basel) found associations between student achievement (college grade point average) and fruit consumption as well as regular meal consumption. 

    Healthy students are more likely to be high-achieving students.

    Just as important, especially for younger children, is that healthy eating is linked to better perception of performance at school, according to research in Frontiers in Nutrition. That can be good news for parents who want their children to enjoy school and lay a foundation for a strong career at school.

    Preventing Obesity with Healthy Foods at Home

    Does your gut tell you that fast food isn’t the way to go when it comes to healthy weight for your children? Your gut is right. Take a step back before ordering pizza tonight!

    There are clear relationships between fast food consumption and obesity in children and adults. Burgers, fries, pizza, chicken nuggets, and milkshakes are calorie-dense, low in nutrients, and a good way to consume excess calories and gain weight.

    But wait, there’s more! Some evidence shows that although fast food consumption is linked to weight gain, the rest of the diet is just as important, if not more so! It turns out that people who consume more fast food also tend to have poorer diets at home. It’s good motivation not only to prepare food at home, but to plan for healthy meals at home. 

    Simple Healthy Meals for Families

    Hopefully you’re convinced that eating healthy is important for your children (and you). It can be quick to get healthy meals on the table, even when you’re tired or rushed. Keep nutritious foods on hand in the pantry, fridge, and freezer so they’re always available. 

    Here are some simple meals to consider. 

    Meal Examples
    Breakfast • Oatmeal with fruit (bananas, frozen berries, pineapple, mango) and peanut butter
    • Oat O’s or shredded wheat with milk and fruit
    • Yogurt or cottage cheese parfait with oats or granola and fruit; sprinkle with chopped peanuts or nuts
    Lunch • Peanut butter and banana in a whole-grain wrap
    • Low-fat cheese on whole-grain bread
    • Whole-wheat penne pasta with cubed cooked chicken breast
    • Veggie sides: baby carrots, grape tomatoes, sugar snap peas, cucumber slices, bell pepper strips
    • Fresh fruit: banana, berries, tangerine, apple or pear slices
    • Snacks like mini brown rice cakes
    Dinner • Whole-wheat spaghetti with marinara, mixed with cooked carrots and parmesan; chicken on the side
    • Casserole with cooked brown rice, egg or egg whites, and spinach/broccoli/green beans; side of fruit
    • Easy Taco Night: Browned lean ground turkey or beans in taco seasoning, served with whole-grain tortillas, lettuce, tomatoes, salsa, and shredded cheese — let everyone build their own

    More Ways to Support Healthy Eating Habits

    There are more ways to support healthy eating habits for your children beyond serving balanced meals. Here are a few tips. 

    • Make it easier to consume fruit and vegetables than processed snacks by having them prepared and accessible quickly when children are hungry.
    • Let children choose from among healthy choices that you offer so they can feel ownership in their choice. 
    • Have designated eating areas in your home, like the dining room table and the kitchen, so that there is less chance of developing mindless eating habits while watching television or doing other activities. 

    And remember – it may not seem like it, but your children are watching you and learning from you. What you do may be their greatest influence long-term!

    How do you support healthy eating for your children and in your household?

  • How and Why My Son Taught Me to Make Pesto

    My son recently came out of school and informed me that we had to buy basil. Thrilled that this greeting was far less hostile than some of the greetings I get at pick-up (typically ranging from nothing on a good day to a shove or a proclamation that I’m not going to let him to something-or-other on a less good day), I asked him why. He said that his class had made pesto in Garden class, and he wanted to make it at home.

    Our pesto turned out beautiful!

    I was happy about this, though his enthusiasm doesn’t always pan out. Last year, he wanted me to buy chard because they’d grown and tasted it at school. Not surprisingly, he liked it as little when I bought it for him as he had liked every time before that. And when he wanted celery, I was happy to buy him some. He hated it, just like he always had. But I understand the excitement of producing it yourself and having it under a different set of circumstances. 

    Gardening Class in Elementary School!

    My son goes to a public school, but it has a lot of elements that go far beyond your typical public school. Parent donations go a long way, including funding a garden and even a teacher for Garden. Each class goes once a week. Students might plant seeds, weed, water, or harvest. They usually also get some sort of lesson relating to how plants grow or how to use what they harvest. 

    I didn’t get to see the basil growing in my son’s school’s garden, but maybe it looked something like this.

    Getting the Pesto Ingredients

    We needed to purchase fresh basil and garlic. The timing was good, as my son was a bit sick. We needed something to do after school that didn’t require much energy, so we borrowed my parents’ car and went to a nearby supermarket for two bunches of basil and one head of garlic. 

    When we dropped off the car at my parents’ house, we took further advantage of their kindness – without asking, of course, since they were out of town. We took the rest of the ingredients we needed, including olive oil and chopped pecans, which were the closest substitute we could find to pine nuts or walnuts. We also took the remainder of a bag of Italian shredded 5-cheese blend to substitute for parmesan cheese. 

    Making the Pesto (1 Week Later)

    We delayed the actual production of pesto due to my son’s illness. Since he had barely eaten for several days by the time we assembled the ingredients, I asked if he wanted to wait to make the pesto so that he could enjoy it more when it was ready. He chose to wait.

    A few days later, when he was eating more normally, it was time to make the pesto. He got out the blender and the ingredients, assembled the blender, and plugged it in. I peeled a head of garlic and cut off the end, but he did the rest. He took the basil leaves off their stems and put them and the other ingredients in the blender, including carefully pouring in the olive oil. 

    My son said they’d used a hand cranked vegetable processor at school, so we didn’t know what setting to use on the blender. We decided to pulse it. He pulsed the blender and alternated pulsing with using a very long drink mixing spoon to stir. 

    For some reason, the head of garlic remained completely intact. He took it out of the blender and minced it with a knife on the cutting board. As a left-hander who didn’t have much knife experience, he looked kind of awkward, but he did a beautiful job. Then he put the minced garlic back in the blender and pulsed another few times.

    We don’t have a garlic press, but my son minced the garlic beautifully with a knife.

    He poured the pesto into a container, and I had the privilege of cleaning up. If anyone has any tips for washing olive oil-based foods off of dishes and utensils, please let me know! Olive oil is so greasy!

    Results: Taste and Emotions

    We both thought the pesto was delicious. Warning for those of you who are foodies: we’re not connoisseurs. We like most foods, even if they’re not traditional or perfect. But the pesto was tasty, the texture was nice, and it had been made with love and pride. We didn’t have it on pasta or any other food you might associate with pesto. Dinner included swai, sweet potato, watermelon, and zucchini. There was enough left over for a few more meals.

    It was nice to see my son proud of himself for a job well done. He told his grandparents about it, and even got to show them it while he was eating lunch while video chatting with them. 

    My son feeds off of himself. If he feels guilty or ashamed, he gets angry with himself and makes it worse. He can work himself up into a terrible state. On the other hand, when he’s proud and in control, his best self shines through. That was a beautiful gift of this pesto experience. 

    How do you let your kids be their best selves? 

    Pesto Recipes

    Traditional Pesto Recipe Our Pesto Recipe
    • 2 cups fresh basil leaves
    • ½ cup grated Parmesan cheese
    • ⅓ cup pine nuts
    • 2 cloves garlic
    • ½ cup extra-virgin olive oil
    • Pinch of salt
    • 2 bunches fresh basil leaves
    • ½ cup shredded Italian cheese blend
    • ⅓ cup chopped pecans
    • Garlic to taste (we used 1 peeled minced head of garlic — adjust as desired)
    • ½ cup olive oil
    • Pinch of salt
    Instructions
    1. Add basil, cheese, nuts, garlic, and a pinch of salt to a blender or food processor.
    2. Pulse a few times to begin breaking down the ingredients, then stream in olive oil while blending to reach your desired consistency.
    3. Stop and scrape the sides as needed; adjust seasoning to taste.
    4. Transfer pesto to a container and store in the refrigerator. Use with pasta, as a spread, or a dip.

    Approximate nutrition information per 1/6 of recipe: 180 calories, 18 grams of fat, 3 grams of saturated fat, 10 mg cholesterol, 2 grams of carbohydrates, 1 gram of fiber, 0 grams of sugar, 3 grams of protein

  • Healthy Kid-Friendly Breakfast-for-Dinner Recipes (11–15): Quick & Easy Ideas

    Here are ideas 11-15 in the final installment of a three-part breakfast-for-dinner series. (Here is the first part and here is the second part if you missed them!). Again these recipes are designed to be fun for kids by serving elements of breakfast like waffles and eggs at dinnertime. The recipes have protein, fiber, and fruits and vegetables, and they’re easy to make and clean up. They’re also easy to modify to suit picky kids and grown-up tastes and needs. 

    11. Vegetable Omelet with Waffle and Poached Pear

    350 calories, 18 grams of protein, 5 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Cook ripe pears in a small amount of water until very soft. Slice or dice and set aside. Saute vegetables like spinach, mushrooms, zucchini, or bell peppers. In a bowl, whisk eggs or egg whites with milk. Pour into the pan and cook. Serve with a toasted frozen whole-grain waffle topped with plain yogurt and pears. Top with cinnamon if desired. 

    Why it’s great: Frozen waffles save time, and kids love the variety of surprising tastes for dinner. 

    Nutritional highlights: Eggs and mushrooms have vitamin D, and pears have lignan, which is a special type of fiber. 

    12. Your-Way Smoothie Bowl

    350 calories, 10 grams of protein, 7 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Let each child choose their own components. Start with cottage cheese or yogurt, then offer vegetables like carrots, spinach, or kale. Sweeten the smoothie bowl with favorite fruit like bananas, berries, or melon. For thickness, offer ripe avocado or peanut butter. Let kids top their bowls with oats, seeds, cereal, or crumbled whole-grain crackers. 

    Why it’s great: Kids love choosing their own components and sprinkling toppings at the end. Grown-ups can appreciate a break from cooking. 

    Nutritional highlights: It has calcium, healthy fats, protein, fiber, whole grains, vegetables, and fruit – all in one bowl!

    13. Whole-Grain Waffle Egg Sandwich

    420 calories, 14 grams of protein, 7 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Cook an egg. Spread a small amount of mashed ripe avocado on two frozen and thawed whole-grain waffles. Place the egg and a slice of cheese on a waffle, and top it with the other waffle. Serve with a banana or other fruit.

    Why it’s great: Grown-ups can feel good about serving something healthy without cooking much, and kids love feeling like they’re eating “junk food” for dinner.

    Nutritional highlights: It has protein, fiber, and heart-healthy monounsaturated fats. 

    14. Breakfast Burrito

    320 calories, 15 grams of protein, 6 grams of fiber

    Prep tips:Add scrambled egg and a slice of American cheese to a whole-wheat tortilla. Adults may like it with salsa, beans, and lettuce.

    Why it’s great: It’s compact and easy to transport. Take it anywhere!

    Nutritional highlights: Small but mighty, it’s filling with protein and fiber. 

    15. Sweet Potato Egg Nests

    Prep tips: Toss grated or spiralized sweet potato or spaghetti squash with olive oil, salt, and pepper. Divide into nest-sized piles on a cookie sheet with foil and cooking spray. Bake for 10 minutes, then crack an egg into the center of each nest. Back until the eggs are set. Serve with avocado or fruit.

    Why it’s great: Includes kid favorites like eggs and sweet potatoes, and adults like using whole foods instead of processed options

    Nutritional highlights: It’s high in fiber, protein, and beta-carotene. 

    With these final five recipes, you now have 15 ways to make breakfast-for-dinner both healthy and family-approved. From finger foods to bowls, savory bites to sweet twists, you’ve got plenty of inspiration to keep mealtime exciting without sacrificing nutrition. Whether you pick a favorite or rotate through all 15, your family can enjoy balanced dinners that feel fresh, fun, and easy any night of the week.

    With these final five recipes, you now have 15 ways to make breakfast-for-dinner both healthy and family-approved. From finger foods to bowls, savory bites to sweet twists, you’ve got plenty of inspiration to keep mealtime exciting without sacrificing nutrition. Whether you pick a favorite or rotate through all 15, your family can enjoy balanced dinners that feel fresh, fun, and easy any night of the week.

  • Quick and Healthy Kid-Friendly Breakfast-for-Dinner Ideas (Recipes 6–10)

    6. English Muffin Egg Pizza

    290 calories, 17 grams of protein, 3 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Spread marinara sauce on whole-grain English muffin halves, or use whole-wheat tortilla or sliced whole-wheat bread as a base. Distribute whisked eggs or egg whites. Add sliced tomatoes or diced vegetables and top with low-fat shredded cheese. Toast or broil until the egg is cooked. 

    English muffin pizzas can be topped with any number of great options like eggs, cheese, and spinach.

    Why it’s great: Kids love pizza in all forms, and this is a high-protein, low-fat option with minimal clean-up.

    Nutritional highlights: It’s high in protein and calcium, and adding tomatoes and tomato sauce adds lycopene and fiber. 

    7. Sweet Breakfast Pasta Bowl

    280 calories, 10 grams of protein, 5 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Toss cooked whole-grain pasta with plain yogurt or Greek yogurt, or use cottage cheese if you prefer. Stir in sliced or mashed banana and fresh or frozen berries, and serve warm or cool. Add a sprinkle of seeds or nuts if desired. 

    Why it’s great: Kids can enjoy a sweet dinner, while grown-ups can appreciate using leftover pasta and fresh or frozen fruit. 

    Nutritional highlights: It’s a source of whole grains, calcium, antioxidants, and fiber. 

    8. Chicken Egg Cups

    250 calories, 20 grams of protein, 2 grams of fiber

    Chicken egg cups freeze nicely and make fun finger foods. Add more egg whites for extra protein, or stir in blueberries for a sweet surprise.

    Prep tips: Chop and cook vegetables like spinach, tomatoes, zucchini, corn, carrots, bell peppers, and peas. Frozen thawed vegetables and leftover vegetables also work. Toss beaten eggs with vegetables in a bowl. On a separate cutting board, dice cooked skinless chicken and place it in sprayed, lined muffin tin cups. Pour the egg mixture over it, and bake for 15-20 minutes or until the eggs are set. Serve on their own or with fruit, whole-grain crackers, or mini bagels.

    Why it’s great: Parents love that it’s high in protein for the kids, low in carbs for adults, and a delicious way for everyone to eat more vegetables. Kids love that it’s a finger food and full of colorful vegetables.

    Nutritional highlights: It has two sources of protein – chicken and egg – and is low in carbohydrates. 

    9. Apple Cheddar Quesadilla

    270 calories, 12 grams of protein, 4 grams of fiber.

    Prep tips: Slice or dice apples. Add low-fat shredded cheddar or any other cheese to whole-grain tortillas. Sneak in diced tomatoes or chopped spinach if desired. Top with another tortilla and toast. Cut into wedges to serve. 

    Fill whole-grain tortillas with cheddar cheese and add sweet apples or colorful vegetables for a wholesome dinner.

    Why it’s great: Kids love quesadillas with melty cheese. Adults can enjoy contrasts like salty, creamy melted cheese and sweet, crunchy apples.

    Nutritional highlights: Calcium for bones, protein and fiber for fullness

    10. Avocado Cottage Cheese Toast Sticks

    320 calories, 12 grams of protein, 5 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Puree ripe avocado with cooked broccoli florets and low-fat cottage cheese to make a creamy dip. Slice whole-grain bread into strips, toast it, and serve. Alternatively, serve brown rice cakes or whole-grain crackers for dipping.

    Why it’s great: Kids can enjoy a green, creamy dip and the experience of dipping for dinner, while grown-ups can also dip vegetables for additional nutrients. 

    Nutritional highlights: The dip has healthy fats, vitamin E, and protein.

    These five new ideas add more ways to get nutritious, appealing dinners on the table fast. They can fuel growing kids and healthy adults, while bringing comfort and joy due to breakfast elements at dinner. Remember to check recipes 1-5, and watch for breakfast-for-dinner recipes 11-15 coming soon!

  • Quick and Healthy Kid-Friendly Breakfast-for-Dinner Ideas (Numbers 1–5)

    Try “breakfast for dinner” when you want to put a smile on your children’s faces but you need something quick, easy, and healthy. Use classic breakfast components like eggs, pancakes, waffles, and even boxed cereal, but give them a twist for dinner. The following 5 meals can liven up your dinner table, and each has fiber, protein, and at least 1-2 servings of fruit or vegetables. 

    If you missed it, here are our previous healthy dinner tips for families!

    1. Pasta Frittata

    300 calories, 18 grams of protein, 4 grams of fiber

    Why it’s great: Kids can enjoy it as a finger food when you slice it, and adults can appreciate using leftover pasta and having a one-pot meal. 

    Prep tips: Use leftover cooked whole-grain pasta like spaghetti or penne. Stir it gently with beaten eggs and diced vegetables such as spinach, tomatoes, or cooked diced carrots or frozen peas. Baked in a pan until the eggs are set. Slice to serve. Add tomato sauce and parmesan cheese if desired. 

    Eggs with vegetables are already a favorite food – add pasta to make them more balanced and exciting!

    Nutritional highlights: Eggs have protein, and whole-grain pasta and vegetables have fiber.

    2. Cheesy Oatmeal

    420 calories, 12 grams of protein, 5 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Cook oatmeal as usual. Stir in a bit of milk or almond milk and some low-fat cheddar cheese just like you were making a low-fat cheese sauce for mac and cheese. Add chopped broccoli florets or peas for vegetables. Kids who like crunch may also enjoy a topping of sunflower seeds or chopped peanuts. 

    Why it’s great: Oatmeal is familiar and friendly, just like mac and cheese. This cheesy whole-grain dish is simple to make in minutes. 

    Nutritional highlights: Fiber, protein, and calcium come together without a fuss.

    3. PB and Stewed Apples on Bagel

    420 calories, 12 grams of protein, 5 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Chop or slice apples and stew them in a bit of water on the stovetop or in the microwave. Leave them plain or add cinnamon. Puree into applesauce if you prefer, or leave the apples in chunks. Spread peanut butter on whole-grain bagel halves, and top with apples. 

    Why it’s great: It’s easy, inexpensive, and guaranteed to be a hit. 

    Nutritional highlights: Enjoy a PB and ”J” sandwich with no added sugars. Whole-grain bagel, apple, and peanut butter all add fiber. 

    4. Breakfast Tacos

    270 calories, 15 grams of protein, 4 grams of fiber

    Prep tips: Scramble eggs or egg whites with spinach, diced bell peppers, or other vegetables like cut cooked green beans or grated zucchini. Spoon into whole-grain corn taco shells, and top with blueberries or other fruit.

    Why it’s great: It’s a balanced meal that offers portion control, protein, and fiber, and kids love crunchy taco shells and the fun contrast of savory tacos with sweet fruit. 

    Nutritional highlights: Vegetables add fiber, vitamin C, and potassium, while eggs provide every essential nutrient except vitamin C. 

    5. Zucchini Carrot Ribbon Pancake Wraps

    Prep tips: In a bowl, combine beaten eggs with grated zucchini and carrot, whole-wheat flour, and salt and pepper. Stir briskly to blend into a thin batter; don’t overbeat. Cook thin pancakes in a pan with cooking spray. Wrap them around shredded low-fat melted cheese, cottage cheese, or cream cheese to serve. Kids may also enjoy crunchy whole-grain cereal like plain Cheerios or shredded wheat. 

    Stuff egg-based vegetable pancakes with protein, and your kids may not realize they’re getting a healthy dinner!

    Why it’s great: Pancakes feel like breakfast, but they’re savory and fun to eat. A “side” of cereal can be an even more special treat. 

    Nutritional highlights: These pancakes have protein, vegetables, fiber, and calcium, but your kids will love them. 

    Try these recipes, and customize them your way or however your children like. Add protein with turkey or meatless sausage or bacon, ground turkey, or chicken, or swap different fruits and vegetables. Make them family favorites however you like!

    Stay tuned for more breakfast-for-dinner ideas to keep yourself sane, your children happy, and your family healthy!

  • 5 Quick and Healthy Kid-Friendly Dinners With Plenty of Protein

    Does making dinner ever feel like a struggle? If you’re anything like me, you don’t feel like cooking much, but eating out isn’t an option. Instead, it’s time for a family-friendly, nutrient-rich meal that’s appetizing for the whole family, and takes almost no effort. We already posted about family-friendly meals like healthy hot dogs and hamburgers. Here are five more dinner ideas that have protein and other nutrients for kids’ growth and development, while being right in line with grown-ups’ weight management goals. 

    English Muffin Pizzas

    2 English muffin halves with marinara sauce, shredded mozzarella, and turkey pepperoni can have about 350-400 calories and 15-20 grams of protein.

    Most kids love pizza, even when it’s a healthier version than delivery. English muffin pizzas are among the oldest tricks in the book for a quick, tasty, and healthy lunch or dinner. Add marinara sauce and low-fat shredded mozzarella cheese to whole-grain English muffin halves. Whole-grain sliced bread, whole-wheat pita, and whole-wheat tortillas are also good options.

    Some children like pizza plain. Others may prefer to add meatless or turkey pepperoni. Some may enjoy branching out a bit with items like sliced olives, diced cooked chicken, and pineapple chunks. 

    Let your kids make their own pizzas with healthy options that you provide, and you can all be happy with a balanced and easy dinner.

    For a side, serve colorful vegetables like bell pepper strips, carrot sticks, sugar snap peas, and cucumber sticks. Offer a healthy dip like hummus or light ranch dressing. Another good option is marinara sauce. It adds another serving of vegetables, and kids love it. 

    Spinach and Bean Quesadillas

    A quesadilla with a whole-wheat tortilla, low-fat shredded cheese, spinach, and black beans can have about 400-450 calories and 15-25 grams of protein

    These quesadillas are a kid favorite made healthy with whole-wheat tortillas and low-fat cheese instead of refined tortillas and full-fat cheese. Add extra protein with black beans or chicken. For grown-up tastes, tuna is another option.

    To make: top a whole-wheat tortilla with low-fat shredded mozzarella or other cheese and spinach or tomatoes. Add black beans or diced chicken if desired. Cover the tortilla with another tortilla, and toast it. Serve half of the quesadilla at once. 

    Whole-grain tortilla, low-fat cheese, and spinach leaves combine to provide a wholesome quesadilla. Add chicken, fish, or black beans for more protein.

    For vegetables, add spinach leaves or tomatoes inside the quesadillas. If your children don’t want vegetables inside the quesadilla, add a side of fresh salsa made with tomatoes, lime juice, onion, and cilantro.

    Baked Chicken Tenders

    A 3-oz portion of chicken baked with oat coating has about 250 calories and 26 grams of protein. 

    If you’re lucky, your children enjoy plain chicken. If not, it’s okay. It’s not hard to turn skinless chicken breasts or tenderloins into healthy versions of breaded chicken nuggets or tenders.

    Start with thin strips of skinless chicken,  or cut chicken into nugget-sized pieces. Dip them into beaten egg or egg white, and then into a whole-grain coating like crushed shredded wheat, instant oats, or whole-grain breadcrumbs. Before dipping the chicken, you can season the coating by mixing it with your choice of salt, pepper, parmesan cheese, or any spices or herbs you like. Place the chicken on a sprayed cookie sheet and bake it at 400 degrees for 20-25 minutes or until the chicken is cooked through.

    Coat chicken with whole grains and bake them for a more nutritious version of this kid favorite.

    Serve the chicken on whole-grain bread or rolls, or let your children eat it as a finger food with sweet potato and zucchini sticks that you bake with the chicken. 

    Chicken or Bean Taco Bar

    A taco with 2 ounces of chicken, lettuce, tomato, salsa, guacamole, and low-fat shredded cheese has about 360 calories and 29 grams of protein.

    Tacos can be great for kids and adults. 

    Here are some reasons why.

    • They are simple and versatile, so they’re easy for grown-ups to prepare and to serve.
    • They’re more manageable for kids than something larger like a burrito.
    • They’re a great DIY dish when you offer a taco bar.
    • They can be nutritious and high in protein, fiber, and healthy fats.

    With all of these benefits, a taco bar may become a regular event in your home.

    Set out appetizing ingredients like fish or chicken, lettuce or cabbage, and mango or corn, and let your children make their own healthy tacos in whole-grain shells or tortillas.

    For your bar, set out whole-grain taco shells or whole-grain corn tortillas. Whole-wheat flour tortillas work, too; select soft taco-sized tortillas for portion control. Offer toppings like chicken or beans for protein, lettuce and tomato for freshness, and salsa, guacamole, and low-fat shredded cheddar, jack, or Mexican-style cheese for flair.

    For protein, chicken is usually a hit. Try leftover shredded rotisserie chicken, or bake your own chicken, shred it, and mix it with taco seasoning or spices like cumin, chili powder, and paprika. If you and your kids prefer, offer shrimp or a mild fish like tilapia or swai. Plant-based protein ideas are black beans or fat-free refried pinto beans.

    Yellow corn is a beautiful side dish. Offer corn on the cob if it’s in season. Kids may prefer you to cut the kernels off the cob before serving it. Frozen corn works fine, too. If you opt for canned corn, choose non-creamed corn and opt for a version without added sugars. Corn is already sweet!

    For grown-up tastes and additional vegetables that aren’t starchy, try grilled peppers and onions, sauteed zucchini and yellow squash, or roasted broccoli florets. Or, just serve extra lettuce and tomatoes with some salsa. It’s a low-calorie, delicious side dish. 

    Eggy Fried Brown Rice

    A serving (¼ of a recipe) has about 300 calories, and 18 grams of protein.

    Fried rice has a blend of textures and colors. It’s easy because you can use leftover rice and frozen vegetables, and it works for vegetarians. You can have just eggs and egg whites for protein, or add chicken, tofu, shrimp, or fish if you want. Season it how your kids like – whether with soy sauce, ginger, and garlic powder, or with store-bought teriyaki sauce. 

    Use bright vegetables and familiar eggs for a nutritious dish. Swap whole-wheat spaghetti or elbows for brown rice if your children prefer pasta.

    For 4 people, scramble about 2 eggs and 6 egg whites in a pan using cooking spray or 1-2 teaspoons of olive or canola oil. Take the eggs out of the pan and set them aside. Heat another 1-2 teaspoons of olive and add a diced onion. Cook for 4-5 minutes. Add 1-2 cups of frozen or cooked vegetables like peas, diced carrots, chopped zucchini, or chopped broccoli florets. Heat, add 2-3 cups of cooked brown rice, and heat thoroughly. Add the eggs back in, and toss with seasonings like soy sauce, ginger, and garlic powder, or serve with teriyaki sauce. 

    This dish has whole grains, protein, vegetables, and healthy fats. It’s already balanced! If you’re trying to reduce carbs, use riced cauliflower instead of brown rice. For more crunch, protein, fiber, and healthy fat, add chopped peanuts or almond slices to the pan, or sprinkle them on top when serving. For a light accompaniment for grown-up appetites, serve with steamed or stir fried broccoli florets.

    These dinners are easy, versatile, and full of nutrients for kids and adults. What are your balanced and easy dinner staples?

  • Healthy Hot Dogs and Hamburgers for Kids and Parents: Quick & Family-Friendly Ideas

    Hot dogs and hamburgers are easy, quick, and kid favorites, but they can be among the least healthy choices for a family meal. Still, with a few swaps, you can make them healthier. Healthy hot dogs and burgers with high-fiber sides can be easy to make and kid-friendly. Here are tips for cutting back on saturated fat and refined carbs and adding protein and fiber, while keeping kids’ tastes buds in mind. 

    Choose a Healthier Hot Dog

    A standard beef or pork hot dog is high in saturated fat and cancer-causing nitrates. It’s not even that high in protein, with 5 grams of protein, or 10% of the daily value, in a classic wiener. Protein helps your kids grow and it helps you stay full for longer, which makes weight management easier. 

    Turkey franks are slightly better. They’re lower in saturated fat and don’t have red meat, which is linked to heart disease risk. But they’re still not great. They have cancer-causing nitrates just like beef dogs do, and they only have 5-6 grams of protein.

    For a much healthier choice, try veggie dogs. They’re free from nitrates and cholesterol, and they’re low in saturated fat. They’re also higher in protein. A jumbo veggie dog, for example, has about the same amount of calories as a beef or turkey dog, with 100 calories, but it has no nitrates, no cholesterol, and 14 grams of protein. 

    Better Burger Alternatives

    Don’t do it! A burger and fries can have over 1,000 calories, but with just a bit more effort, you can serve a nutritious, high-protein meal!

    Burgers can be higher in protein than hot dogs, but for the sake of your health and your children’s health, consider alternatives to regular beef burgers. A 4-ounce beef patty made with 85% lean ground beef has 240 calories and 6 grams of saturated fat. That’s about a quarter of the daily limit for saturated fat. Plus, red meat – even lean red meat – can increase risk for heart disease due to the way your body metabolizes it. 

    Try a lean ground turkey burger instead. Look for 90-95% lean. Keep it from being too dry by adding a bit of grated zucchini, a splash of milk, or beaten egg. A tablespoon of light mayo or a few squeeze of ketchup can also help. Be sure not to overwork the meat when you’re shaping it. 

    Here are some other alternatives to offer. 

    • Skinless chicken is a great lean option. Bake or grill it for kids who like simple foods. 
    • If your children like chicken nuggets, make healthier versions. Dip chicken tenderloin in egg whites and coat it with whole-grain cracker crumbs or breadcrumbs, oats, or almond meal. Bake it on a sprayed cookie sheet.
    • Veggie burgers. They’re fun for kids who like colors and textures. Different varieties may have garbanzo beans, black beans, yellow corn, green peas, orange carrots, quinoa, oats, and more. 

    Whole-Grain Buns and Wraps

    Why waste space and calories with a white bun when a whole-wheat bun is just as easy to come by? Both hot dog and hamburger buns are usually available in a generic or store brand version, so they’re affordable. Whole-grain tortillas can also be great choices for hot dogs. Kids get a kick out of a rolled-up hot dog. 

    Choosing a whole-grain bun is an easy way to boost whole grains and fiber. That’s important because a typical American gets less than half of the recommended amounts of whole grains and fiber, but these are linked to lower risk for obesity, type 2 diabetes, and heart disease. Remember to offer the bun toasted if your children may enjoy it more that way.

    For yourself, consider portion control. A smaller, store-brand whole-wheat hamburger bun can have about 120 calories. A national brand, larger bun can have 200 or more calories and 35 or more grams of carbohydrates. 

    If you’re going low-carb, consider a low-carb tortilla, low-carb wrap, or naked dog or burger. 

    Sneak More Nutrients into the Burger

    You’ve given your kids a great start with a whole-grain bun and lean protein for the filling, but it’s okay to push for more! If your goal is to get as much nutrition as possible into the burger and your child’s belly, here are some more ideas. 

    • Mashed or pureed ripe avocado for heart-healthy fats and a creamy texture
    • American cheese slices or a slice of another type of hard cheese for protein and calcium.
    • Meatless bacon
    Give your children enough healthy choices, and they are sure to end up with a healthy meal that they love.

    If you do opt for process cheese, just read the nutrition facts and ingredients. Look for a brand that has protein and calcium. Some varieties are made mostly with starch, and don’t have much protein.

    Healthy Toppings and Condiments

    Some children love toppings. Others prefer their food plain. A squeeze of ketchup is probably the most popular choice for kids. Grown-ups can enjoy relish, yellow mustard, dijon mustard, or spicy brown mustard for a low-calorie condiment. 

    For yourself, feel free to make a more filling burger or hot dog by piling it high with grilled onions and peppers, mushrooms cooked in a small amount of broth, or lettuce and tomato. 

    Kid-Friendly Vegetable Sides

    Instead of a hot dog and chips or a burger and fries, serve plenty of appetizing vegetables. For example, for a crunchy side, skip potato chips. Instead, cut sodium and fat, and add vegetables and nutrients  with baked kale chips. Shred kale leaves, toss them in olive oil and sea salt or parmesan cheese, and bake them on a sprayed cookie sheet. 

    Instead of French fries, try baked strips of sweet potato, zucchini, carrots, green beans, or parsnip. They’re delicious and far healthier choices than fried potatoes, and many children like these choices. 

    Colorful finger foods may be enticing enough to get your children to eat vegetables. Let them choose their favorites!

    If you need more vegetables for yourself, serve a side salad. It’s easy, filling, and low in calories. 

    Bon Appetit!

    Depending on your children’s ages and abilities, consider involving them to various degrees. Older children may be able to help you set the table and prepare some foods, like coating chicken with breadcrumbs, mashing avocado, or tossing kale with olive oil and parmesan. Children may enjoy assembling their own burger or hot dog and toppings. Even younger children may appreciate you asking how they want their burger or dog, and which sides they prefer. 

    End a meal with fresh fruit instead of a sugar-sweetened dessert, and your child may be just as happy.

    How do you get a quick, healthy lunch or dinner on the table for your whole family? How do you serve it? Please tell me your ideas!

  • First Day of Third Grade: Back-to-School Prep and Observations

    School started last week! I know I’m not the only parent who was ready for it. Here’s how the countdown to the first day of third grade went. My son is 8 years old. 

    Back-to-School Shopping List: Short and Sweet!

    Back-to-school shopping appears to be a season these days. Sales seem to start in June and continue through summer vacation. 

    My son’s school supplies pencils, crayons, highlighters, scissors, and other items that they need in the classroom. There’s a beautiful pencil box waiting on each student’s desk when they enter the classroom. I’m just responsible for supplying a backpack, lunchbag, and water bottle. He ended up with this backpack, which feels cushiony and has reinforcements under the side water bottle holders. 

    I’m also lucky when it comes to buying clothes. My son is easy-going, with a few shirts and pants being sufficient. Plus, he enjoys shopping with his grandparents, so I don’t have to do much for his wardrobe. 

    Though I get off relatively easy, it’s true that there’s no such thing as a free lunch. I do pay the price for having very little to buy! 

    Cost of a “Free Education:” Fundraising for a Good Cause

    Fundraising starts before school starts with the Annual Giving Campaign. The suggested donation is $1,000 per family. I’m happy to pay it. A public education is supposed to be free, but I can see where the money is spent. The school offers extracurriculars like art, music, gardening, computer lab, and science lab. The facilities are very nice, and, of course, there are the school supplies. You can see that families’ donations are going to benefit the children.

    A Relief for Parents

    Summer vacation can be tough for parents. I can only speak with certainty for myself, but I think other parents feel similarly. Working parents like me enjoy unbelievable freedom and flexibility compared to parents who work in the office, but there are challenges, too. 

    In my case, being at home doesn’t always mean my son is disruptive, but he is increasingly savvy as he grows up. Now he knows that he can watch a screen if I need to work and can’t entertain him. So, I try to avoid the situation. Instead, I try to work at home when he’s not home, or take him somewhere without a screen if I need to work. The library, a park, and long bus rides are options that currently amuse him while I can work. 

    School is a safe, dependable place to leave my son without guilt. I can feel good that he’s with his friends, his brain is getting some sort of stimulation (hopefully), and I’m not choosing between one of three not-great options:

    • Asking my parents to exhaust themselves while watching my son
    • Paying for a babysitter
    • Begging my son to be quiet while I’m working

    School is even low-cost, though as you can see from the cost of a free public education above, it’s not quite free. 

    I assume stay-at-home parents also feel relieved when their children return to school, but I can’t speak for them. Many of them may feel lonely during the day.  Others may embrace the chance to socialize, clean their homes, binge watch tv shows, or volunteer at their children’s schools. 

    A Simple First-Day-of-School Ritual…and What I Did After Drop-off

    I had long planned for the first day of school. I’d walk my son to school at his request. It’s a first-day-of-school tradition, since I don’t usually take him to school. (Usually my parents or a babysitter do the honors while I run). 

    My plan was to drop him off, then go to the park to play basketball. (I’m still playing mostly left-handed, though my back is healing nicely). Then I was going to do some work, take a nap, and clean our home. I played basketball and did some work. Somehow, I wasn’t tired. Maybe I had adrenaline from the excitement of being on my own, guilt-free. 

    First Day of Third Grade: A Statement of Independence 

    I don’t typically take my son to school. When I decided to have a child, I promised myself that I wasn’t going to give up my mornings. I like to run, work out, and have my own time. So, I get a babysitter or my parents take my son in the mornings.

    My son wanted me to take him on the first day of school. I got up early, ran, and then we walked to school. I even remembered to take a first-day-of-school photo. 

    The other children were entering the schoolyard with one or two parents. My son sweetly said goodbye and kindly refused my offer to stand in the yard with him like every other parent. So, that was that. 

    I think third grade comes with a little more independent work. That’s great practice!

    “Best Day Ever”

    It’s nice that even though he’s a big 8-year-old, my son still has a lot of adorable qualities. For example, he still regularly has the best day ever. His first day of school was, according to him, the best day ever. Here’s what I gathered about why.

    • He got a pencil from his teacher. 
    • A classmate paid him a compliment (as part of what apparently was an icebreaker to pass along a compliment to another student). 
    • His teacher awarded the class 10 extra minutes of Friday Free Time.

    He also enjoyed being in the big building, which is where the third, fourth, and fifth-grade classrooms are. 

    The Afterschool Meltdowns Continue

    After the best day ever, who wouldn’t have a meltdown? They’re regular; nearly every day of school ends with a shorter or longer meltdown. This one was shorter than some. 

    How did the first day of school go for you and your children? How did they react to it after school?

  • Peanut Butter Adventures, Episode 1

    Here’s the first installment of my adventures with peanut butter. Sure, I have a growing boy at home, but there’s more to the story. I’ve been making peanut butter sandwiches for a local food pantry for a year. Now, I’m going to hand out jars of peanut butter when I see a need on the streets. Hope you love the adventure! 

    For now, let’s just talk about peanut butter. Next time, we’ll get into some adventures. 

    Peanut Butter as an American Institution

    Peanut butter is one of the best all-around foods. It’s convenient, inexpensive, nutritious, and delicious. Those reasons are probably why peanut butter sandwiches are the most popular plant-based sandwiches in the US according to USDA data. (If you’re curious, the popularity of cold cut sandwiches, burgers, and hot dogs outweighs the popularity of peanut butter sandwiches). 

    How Much Peanut Butter Are We Talking About?

    Americans consume an average of 4.4 pounds of peanut butter per year. That’s more than 60 2-tablespoon servings, or 4.5 16-ounce jars. For a family of four that consumes the average amount, that comes out to 18 jars of peanut butter per year, or about 1 jar every 3 weeks. 

    If you’re a peanut butter-loving household, I bet you have far more than that! Schoolchildren could easily eat 5 peanut butter sandwiches a week for the duration of the school year, or about 35 weeks. That adds up to 105 sandwiches, or more than 7 jars of peanut butter. That’s before adding in snacks and PB sandwiches on vacation! 

    How Much Peanut Butter in Peanut Butter Adventures?

    My household goes through far more than 18 jars of peanut butter a year. My son eats some, but not that much (and to be fair, a lot of his peanut butter consumption is at breakfast at my parents’ house!). 

    I estimate we go through 150 jars a year! That’s because I make sandwiches every week for a local food pantry. I use 3 jars most weeks, or enough for 30-40 sandwiches. I’m definitely doing my part to support the peanut butter industry! 

    Now, I’ve started carrying around a jar of peanut butter to give away to people who seem to need it. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people in my neighborhood who are grateful for something that is so affordable to me. 

    How to Make Peanut Butter

    Peanut butter is magical to me. Just put peanuts in a blender, and puree them until they turn into thick, sticky peanut butter. For a more spreadable texture, add 1-2 spoonfuls of oil. For flavor, add salt. It’s so simple!

    Peanut butter that you buy in stores can range from 100% peanuts to having ingredients like sugar, salt, and solid fats from hydrogenated soybean oil or tropical oils like palm oil. You’ll pay for the privilege of having natural, organic peanut butter with nothing but peanuts, but if you look around, there can be compromises, like peanut butter without hydrogenated oils

    Of course, there are all kinds of variations on peanut butter. Flavors of peanut butter include cinnamon, cocoa, and white chocolate. For decades, there’ve been jars of peanut butter and jelly stripes to make sandwich-making easier. 

    A Convenient and Nutritious Food

    Peanut butter needs no refrigeration. It’s ready to eat. It’s cholesterol-free, low in saturated fat, and high in healthy monounsaturated fats. It’s a source of plant-based protein, and it has dietary fiber. At about $2 per 16-ounce jar for a store brand of peanut butter, it’s remarkably inexpensive. I’ll go into cost comparisons with other foods in another post. 

    Healthy Ways to Use Peanut Butter

    A peanut butter sandwich on whole-grain sliced bread is one healthy choice for peanut butter. Here are a few variations on classic PB sandwiches. 

    Peanut butter on whole-grain bread has fiber and antioxidants.
    • Peanut butter on whole-grain tortilla or wrap, wrapped around a banana
    • Diced stewed (or microwaved) apple or pear with cinnamon on PB and whole-grain bread or toast
    • Peanut butter on half a whole-grain bagel, with pear slices

    Peanut butter is good for way more than sandwiches. 

    • Dip celery, carrots, apple slices, or pear slices into peanut butter.
    • Blend frozen banana chunks with peanut butter and cinnamon, cocoa powder, or voila extract.
    • Thin out creamy peanut butter to make a sauce for an Asian-inspired dish with whole-grain spaghetti
    • Add peanut butter to oatmeal or whole-wheat pancake batter, or top whole-grain pancakes or waffles with peanut butter instead of butter.
    • Top oatmeal, yogurt, or cottage cheese with peanut butter and fruit.

    For a healthier dessert, stuff dates with peanut butter – just watch the calories, since they add up fast!

    More Ways to Enjoy Peanut Butter

    If you’re looking for a treat without worrying about nutrition, there are any number of ways to enjoy peanut butter. 

    • Classic PB&J sandwich with white bread, peanut butter, and grape or strawberry jelly. Honey is another option.
    Peanut butter and jelly on white bread may be a happy memory from childhood for many people.
    • Peanut butter cookies or peanut butter oatmeal cookies. 
    • Peanut butter bars and peanut butter cheesecake.
    • Peanut butter frosted brownies or cake.
    • Energy balls with peanut butter, oats, sugar, honey, or powdered sugar, and cocoa powder. 
    • Peanut butter-filled pretzels
    • Peanut butter milkshakes and smoothies with added sugars.
    • Peanut butter pie, with or without whipped topping blended in or on top, and on a chocolate, graham cracker, or standard pie crust

    I’m excited to keep using peanut butter and giving it away. I’ll keep you posted on how my peanut butter adventures go!

    How do you use peanut butter?